I got a basic underline down what check points I want to hit in an interaction...
Open
Time constraint
Disqualifier (Neg)
Transition
Attraction routine stack
Cold Read
Qualify (push and pull) (commonalities)
Bounce (commit)
Build rapport
Close
So I tried to write out a scenario or a pick up and what I would say with each check point in the interaction but I need some help>
Scenario
Pua: “Hey guys, real quick, would you ever date a guy with a skullet?”(Opener with false time constraint)
HB: Response
Pua: “This guy I work with is got some balding going on; he is bald on top and his hair is cut short on the sides then in the back he has long curly hair.” Do you think you could find him attractive?” (Story why I asked, root)
HB: Response
Pua: “I watch this guy try to pick up costumers; sometimes he wears a stupid hat so it looks like he has hair. Sometimes he gets a good reaction but I can’t tell if the girl is just being polite.”
HB: Response
Pua: “He wears this cool cowboy hat and jacket in the winter, kind of like Chuck Norris, he is a character.”
Pua: “I don’t really know you that well other wise I would introduce you to him.” (Disqualifier)
Pua: “Awesome I’m glad you guys are really friendly, anyway out of curiosity how do guys know each other?" (Transition) (Also stating there friendly to create an image for them to live up to)
HB: Response
Pua: "Cool, before I go, get this, how do you make someone not be attracted to you?”(False time constraint, opener to a DHV story.)
HB: Response
Pua: “I was at this party and I was just being social when this girl started talking to me. We talked for a little and she starts to act a little different, she started to get really touchy feely. Then she started with the innuendos, she started to come on way too strong, and I wasn’t really attracted to her. So at this point I was sitting down talking to my friend Dan when she comes over and puts her leg on my lap. Her leg was pretty heavy I might add. So I’m like O shit! I go to get up she grabs my arm and goes, “were you going?”
HB: Response
Pua: “Yea so finally my friend sees what’s going on and was like can you find Tj for me. I get up go outside find my friend and decide to stay outside and play beer pong, next thing I know someone grabs my ass. She was sitting behind now. The rest the night she followed me around. What would you have done in this situation?”
HB: Response
Pua: “So what’s you favorite position (pause)… To be in would you rather have someone be attracted to you and try to win you over or would you rather win someone over.
HB: Response
Pua: Hey...are you someone confident to accept a sincere compliment?!
HB: Response
Pua: Cool. Me too!! Hey, you go first. [Pointing back to me] Fire away.
HB: Response
Pua: [if not complimented] Just kidding... [If complimented, skip the just kidding] Actually, I came over here cause you looked like [compliment +mini cold read] an interesting person I wanted to meet you. (Cold read)
Pua: Are you adventurous? (Qualify) (Bait)
HB: Response (Hook)
Pua: Well what’s the most adventurous thing you have ever done? (Bait)
HB: Response (Hook)
Pua: I LOVE adventurous/spontaneous girls (Reel) …I’m still not sure if you are or not (Release)
Pua: “Hey let’s go sit down” (Bounce) or “I’m going to borrow your friend for a sec.” (Isolate)
Pua: (Thumb wars or while building comfort) “So what did you want to be when you were little?”
HB: Response
Pua: My first impression of you was kind of not so great but now that I got to know you, you’re pretty cool.
Pua: “Not only are you attractive but you have an awesome personality.” (SOI)
Pua: Close
So I know every interaction is different and not textbook. I understand that I will have to, “Be like water,” but I would like some feedback on this. Also I was wondering if I should add something or remove something. Another question about multi threading, how is this done and is it done in attraction A2?
Things that I keep in mind in set would be frame control, to be non reactive, body rock as a false time constraint, throw in c/f teasing in attraction and fluff talk in comfort.
