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Author:  dawg87 [ Tue Jun 03, 2008 12:44 am ]
Post subject:  How to losen up a reserved chick!
Ok theres this chick i wanna game cuz well i like her but i cant seem to losen her up. I met her in Winter semester and now its been 6mnths since i know her she was in one of my class and in my grp (thats how i got to know her). N e way, before summer session began, she willingly said that she will help me/tutor me for french over the summer as she's stayin in town for the first time (and so am i), she had talked bout doin this n that over the summer, but every time i try to hangout with her or make plans and involve her it dont seem to work...we do meet up for tutorials once or twice a week, but i dunno how to game her than cause pretty much thats OUR time. Im still new @ the game and stuff trying to build up confidence so...
One thing that i remember i invited her to my kegger but she had another party to go to and this is the convo we had,

HER:Ouuu...I already have a party to go to on the 18th, lol
ME:Well it cant b that cool
HER:haha...oh but it is
ME:Not when iv never heard of it
HER:hahaha...we'll have fun at our parties
ME:So ur implyin that u just dont wanna party with me, ok i get the picture, ur just shy
HER:lol....you know better than that
ME:Aightt so wat if i wanted to party with u i would hav to make an appointment a month in advance or sumthing
HER:Better make it 2 months
ME:oo so theres a huge demand for u out there eh
HER:lol..you know it
ME:ok so i would like to officialy make an appointment 2 months in advance and during those 2 months u better come up with something crazy 2 do
HER:lol...I'm sure we'll party together at least once over the summer
ME: Once only thats it?
HER:Well, we'll be too busy studying french most times
ME: I'll b doin most of the studyinnn, u'll mostly b doin the young and appealing teacher part
HER: young and appealing, lol

sorry for the long convo, so im thinking of doing something cause 2 months are almost up! and the appointment is close! so what should i do! Im sure she has forgotten all about it! (O and i dunno if she likes me n stuff but meh watever lets just get on with the game). Really appreciate all the help.
Author:  Zdiddy [ Tue Jun 03, 2008 2:35 am ]
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Well first off in your convo you made her look like she is the prize by saying when can I make an appointment, you should have made it look like she would be missing out on partying with you.

I'm sorry I dont have any great liners.
Author:  The Stink [ Tue Jun 03, 2008 1:01 pm ]
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I think maybe try an instant-date instead. Like go for a study session and then at the end say something like:

'you know we've been doin this for hours -I'm all studied out. I need a break -we should go grab some food /coffee /something'

This is good cos shes only been with you in a study environment so far. So its a change of pace -similar idea to kino escalation but more like date escalation. Start of with this then later once you've been on the mini-date tell her she should come to a 'great party happening this week'. Or you could just try and game her while you're on your mini-date so you don't have to worry about having to game her at a party. There'd probably be less distractions etc if it was just you and her on a mini-date anyways.

I do agree with Ziddy as well tho make yourself the prize. Anyways, goodluck with it mate.
Author:  VAtrackstar [ Tue Jun 03, 2008 2:04 pm ]
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I think maybe try an instant-date instead. Like go for a study session and then at the end say something like:

'you know we've been doin this for hours -I'm all studied out. I need a break -we should go grab some food /coffee /something'

This is good cos shes only been with you in a study environment so far. So its a change of pace -similar idea to kino escalation but more like date escalation. Start of with this then later once you've been on the mini-date tell her she should come to a 'great party happening this week'. Or you could just try and game her while you're on your mini-date so you don't have to worry about having to game her at a party. There'd probably be less distractions etc if it was just you and her on a mini-date anyways.

I do agree with Ziddy as well tho make yourself the prize. Anyways, goodluck with it mate.
I love this advice from stink. From the conversation, it seems like you two do not know each other very well. Spending some time together just the two of you after a study session seems like a great way to build some comfort. Good luck. :)
Author:  Second Chance [ Tue Jun 03, 2008 2:07 pm ]
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By the looks of it in the conversation you were really trying to neg her, but the negs you used were only really half hearted. You also started out ok - not great, but ok, by saying the party couldn't have been that good if you hadn't heard of it, if you had been able to build on this it would have been a great opportunity to DHV.

Read over your conversation, highlight parts that you think went well and parts that didn't, personally I think you did OK until you mentioned booking an appointment to see her, then the rest was a bit of an attempt from you to try and make her laugh and bring the ball back in to your court.

Make her believe that she is missing out on partying with you, not that you are chasing her.

- SC
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