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Author:  dj12345 [ Sat May 31, 2008 1:16 am ]
Post subject:  So called 'wingman' screws you over!
Right guys, just got back from a night out, and my so-called wingman completely screwed me over and stole the girl i was gaming. How do you guys respond to this kind of thing, though i am guessing it doesn't happen too often!

The bad thing was he lives near me and i had to get a cab back with him at the end of the night, left with a well bitchy comment, which I’m not sure was the right thing to do or not. I no longer care about the girl, more just disappointed that this guy went against me behind my back!

Should i call him out on being an asshole, or just leave it and move on...?

I thought I was gaming the girl well, but obviously not… Do you guys reckon I should say something to the girl as well about being a skank? Or just completely cut off all contact now? Definitely not in a rush to talk to her now!

Cheers guys, I’m angry, but looking forward to your responses!
Author:  HumourMe [ Sat May 31, 2008 1:36 am ]
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Dude,

I may not be the best PUA, but i know a little about Ethics

Right then, i'll put it this way:
A friend that disrespects you is not your friend. What I would do is move on and act like nothing happened, i would improve my game and steal a girl he is gaming, tit for tat, orr, i would just forget about it.... depending on how angry i was. He will get confused if you do the first option because, in the end, he stole your girl and you didn't respond at all to it, it will show him that you are the bigger man and that you don't care about a stupid thing like a girl. It is hard, but it all depends what foot you want to stand on, do you want to turn your back? do you want to stand and fight? or do you want to hug the guy, tell him he did well for stealing your girl and then move on and get an even better looking one? :)

Three choices.

I will leave it up to you

Love
G
Author:  dj12345 [ Sat May 31, 2008 9:07 am ]
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Cheers man, good advice there!

I think I'll just act like nothing happened, and forget about it - Concentrate on getting stronger for the future so this won't happen again!

Yeah, you're right questionable on the friendship stakes now, seen a side to him I don't like and am in no hurry to see him/go out again.

I suspect i'll be seeing the girl sometime this week, just play it cool and as if nothing happened too?
Author:  HumourMe [ Sat May 31, 2008 10:35 am ]
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I would say yes, im not sure how to approach the situation because i have only been in the game for a few weeks. but, here, it all depends what you want from her, do you just want a good night? or do you want a good week of nights with some coffee in the middle? you know what i mean.

If you want a relationship, go slow with the kino, lead her on but don't let her get into your bed just yet, make her want you more than you want her... one thing that i have seen most PUAs say.

And yeah, act like nothing has happened, just be happy, it's the best way...you don't want to advertise that you were trying to game her, for the moment, you want to be her friend... but your game will make her attracted to you, instead of you attracted to her? you know what i mean?

If she really likes you, then do what style does, lead her on, then back out, lead her on, then back out... don't do it too many times or she will get too annoyed and leave... but just keep her on a rope, throwing her away, and pulling her back in.

Cool?

love
G
Author:  Mr.Sparky [ Sun Jun 01, 2008 12:48 am ]
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If your friend does that to you he is not a very good friend... You can't risk having a wing that does that... Find another one is my advice...
Author:  SnowBlow [ Sun Jun 01, 2008 12:52 am ]
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Analyze your game.

Exactly how did he steal her?. If your wing could steal her other guys could steal her.

THEN you can get the answer on prevention.
Author:  Second Chance [ Sun Jun 01, 2008 9:36 am ]
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It is all a learning curve, the way I see it, it is better than a mate stole your girl than a random guy. You should take a look at the night, are there any points where she may have lost interest and your friend gained that at your moment of weakness?

You could always ask him how he did it, if he doesn't know then fair enough, but with him being a friend you can easily exchange notes, preparing you more for next time.
Author:  dj12345 [ Sun Jun 01, 2008 11:54 pm ]
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Yeah, i think you're right, it has made me look back and analyse my game a lot.

To be honest, i think i was starting to develop a case of one-itis on the girl, and was probably on the border of LJBF after some rookie moves anyway!

I just need to learn to launch in for k-close earlier. I still find myself holding back, which inevitably leads to just friends...

Cheers guys, learnt a lot from this one, bring on the next!
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