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Author:  philros1 [ Fri May 30, 2008 2:16 am ]
Post subject:  when a girl says she'll call you back
i called this girl and spoke with her for about thirty seconds on the phone but she said "Hey, I'm really in a rush and busy right now let me call you back later". And I said "Yeah, sure."

I feel like when she said that, she had the upper hand and was controlling the situation which I didn't like. How am I supposed to respond to that? By saying something like "No it's cool I'll call you back later on I'm gonna be busy"....??????

Or am I just reading into it too much?
Author:  c_n12 [ Fri May 30, 2008 2:27 am ]
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I don't know enough about your specific situation but you are reading to much in to it. A woman can be in a rush; if she says she is going to call you back and doesn't well after the time she led you to believe she would then start reading in to it.

If you tell her "No it's cool I'll call you back later on I'm gonna be busy" you'll just come off as conceited, arrogant, controlling, worried and needy. Telling her that would quite possibly be one of the worst things you could do; like dropping a nuclear bomb on your relationship.

- Chris 8)
Author:  G$ [ Fri May 30, 2008 3:07 am ]
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this happens to me alot, the worst thing you can do is call her back before she EVER calls you back. Cause you could run into the risk of running into that again. Best bet would be say "nah i'll call you back" if you get the vibe to ... other than that dont chase em replace em.
Author:  Dynamism [ Fri May 30, 2008 11:11 am ]
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I wouldn't call her back before she calls you but a text might be a good idea, find the post in the forum somewhere on text games, there's some good short texts there ideal to grab her attention.
Author:  Trevino [ Fri May 30, 2008 12:29 pm ]
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Quote:
this happens to me alot, the worst thing you can do is call her back before she EVER calls you back. Cause you could run into the risk of running into that again. Best bet would be say "nah i'll call you back" if you get the vibe to ... other than that dont chase em replace em.
I agree with this one. Same thing with sending a txt to a girl and then if you dont get a response, sending another. I have to admit I am guilty of doing this myself, especially if I am really interested in one. However, I find that it works much better to wait until they txt you back. Even if it is a day or so later, its better than seeming too anxious.
Author:  Selective [ Fri May 30, 2008 7:28 pm ]
Post subject:  I'll call you back...Shut up!
her: I'm in a rush.. I'll call you back later..
you: awww, I'm gonna be busy BUT if you're doing something fun I'll let you interrupt my fun... later

I've found that with The "I'm more fun than you!" Game my frame is the frame they want to visit.. hehehehe
Author:  c_n12 [ Fri May 30, 2008 7:39 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: I'll call you back...Shut up!
Quote:
her: I'm in a rush.. I'll call you back later..
you: awww, I'm gonna be busy BUT if you're doing something fun I'll let you interrupt my fun... later

I've found that with The "I'm more fun than you!" Game my frame is the frame they want to visit.. hehehehe
That's rather AFC; what she hears is, "I'll be busy but because you're so important to me but I will make time you if you decided to call me dear."

She can't take time to talk to you when she's busy so you tell her you're busy but will stop what you're doing for her if and when she feels like or decideds to call?

- Chris 8)
Author:  Selective [ Fri May 30, 2008 9:06 pm ]
Post subject:  perhaps
Perhaps above is right..

but what I've found is that she'll take a moment to claim that what she's doing is fun...

I can then neg her or get off the phone on my terms...
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