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Author:  Trevino [ Thu May 29, 2008 7:28 pm ]
Post subject:  What should I do?
Okay, Im new and trying to get back out there. So far the two problems that I have with my game are the following:

Approach Anxiety and the Closing.

In a situation where I am introduced or at a party and its easy to meet people, I usually do pretty well. I have made it a point to get numbers and follow up on them. However, in bars and clubs, I lack the confidence to just walk up and start the conversation.

I am able to do this with complete strangers on the street or around town, I guess for some reason the bar/club brings a different intimidation factor into the mix. I am really looking for something to get me past this. I dont really have a problem with opening them anywhere but the bar/club. However, when I do open I dont close. I am trying to learn more of the body language put out there by girls and use that to boost my confidence to move forward in conversation and get numbers etc.

Anyways, the weekend is almost here and I really want to try something this Friday. Any newbie suggestions based on what Ive said are really appreciated.
Author:  JSmooth [ Thu May 29, 2008 8:39 pm ]
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I want to say this nicely and I hope you understand, "Just get out there and do it!" Most all pick up artists have some AA in their head or stomache still. I know it comes back from time to time on me and that's after some like 80 field reports now. All you can really do is just plow through it.

The second thing you can do is go to those particular bars or clubs more often so you become more relaxed in there. Also, while you're there if you don't feel like approaching women, try befriending the people that work there. That helps me relax, when I know people where I go.

YOU CAN DO IT MAN! 8)
Author:  Trevino [ Fri May 30, 2008 12:26 pm ]
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Thanks for the advice!
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