Be prepared to show her your work.
If she's interested at all in you she will ask to see it.
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| Author: | cassius84 [ Wed May 28, 2008 8:59 pm ] |
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I write books. I think this is unique, and if used right, this could be attractive to girls. Any ideas how? |
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| Author: | Goldeneye [ Wed May 28, 2008 9:32 pm ] |
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Isn't it enough that it should come up pretty quickly in most conversations? Once she asks, "So what do you do?" you're good to go. You don't need to carry around one of your novels or slip someone your card. That should just be able to come up very simply and naturally in most cases. I write prominently for a local newspaper and also work on stories and plays on the side...I've never had any trouble working that into a conversation effortlessly. Depending on where we are at the time, sometimes there's even a newsstand right by us and I can walk over and pick up an issue and point out my work, which just impresses the hell out of them. You don't need to wear it on your sleeve or anything, but this also isn't something you should be having trouble working in. |
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| Author: | eth [ Sun Jun 08, 2008 10:53 pm ] |
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Thanks for the thread reference, GE -- I'm 16, so I'm not a proper writer, but I think that as I write as a hobby, I couldn't pull off what you have. |
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| Author: | Goldeneye [ Mon Jun 09, 2008 7:08 am ] |
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So it comes up when you discuss hobbies instead. Same difference. Just bring it up naturally. Ask her what hobbies she has, or if she's artistic. She'll then ask if you are. |
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| Author: | Bidyah [ Mon Jun 09, 2008 7:59 am ] |
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Be prepared to show her your work. If she's interested at all in you she will ask to see it.
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| Author: | eth [ Tue Jun 10, 2008 10:29 pm ] |
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I reckon I could tease it out for a while, but I'd need to do it eventually to show I'm not a phony. Thing is, the actual books I've written are heavily abstract and you know, odd. A lot of it is me expressing myself, I think it could show me in a bad light. Would it be better to write a genial small piece to show, and tell the truth about my other stuff. A least I've proven I'm talented and not a phony, whilst I still have something bigger up my sleeve. Any other ways of bringing it into conversation other than asking about her hobbies? |
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| Author: | eth [ Sun Jun 15, 2008 8:35 pm ] |
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And another thing -- the old opener 'Do I look like a drugdealer?' -- is that successful, I could see potential in adapting that to 'Do I look like a writer?' |
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| Author: | Bidyah [ Mon Jun 16, 2008 8:34 am ] |
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It could come off as bragging, but if you do it in a modest way, sure why not. The whole point about the other opener is to be funny... so that would lack ... |
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