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Author:  val. [ Mon May 26, 2008 5:26 am ]
Post subject:  Trying to F-close a friend

I knew this girl for about 4-5 years now. Not neccessarily the closest of friends, but still good friends nonetheless. We go out for movie and dinner rather frequently(about once a week). There would be IOIs from her, like saying how she wished she has a bf like me the kind of thing, and always asking me out. But i know that it isnt possible between us because of our friendship. I would like to bang her though. Would like to hear some opinion from you bros how to f close her, like seducing her slowly and stuff. shes pretty hot, with nice tits. However i come from a rather conservative society, people dont usually speak about getting into bed with friendsthat openly though it still happens though(as in my case). As a result, shes pretty conservative too, everytime i try to talk horny to her, i can sense her being a little quiet about it. Thanks for the inputs.

Author:  Nagathi [ Mon May 26, 2008 12:04 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Trying to F-close a friend

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I knew this girl for about 4-5 years now. Not neccessarily the closest of friends, but still good friends nonetheless. We go out for movie and dinner rather frequently(about once a week). There would be IOIs from her, like saying how she wished she has a bf like me the kind of thing, and always asking me out.
What do you usually reply to that?
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But i know that it isnt possible between us because of our friendship.
Who says that?
Do you want to bang her, or do you want to start a relationship with her?

~ Nag

Author:  val. [ Mon May 26, 2008 1:03 pm ]
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i dont want a relationship with her, just want to bang her lol. i usually brush her compliments off.

Author:  loww [ Mon May 26, 2008 10:09 pm ]
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sorry double post on accident see below

Author:  loww [ Mon May 26, 2008 10:11 pm ]
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Tough one, had almost the exact situation.. friend who was always like "you would make such a good bf"
here is what i did..
went out to the bar with her and a couple of our friends. and started acting differently than normal... not drastically but just more confident and a little cocky funny. her place was right near the bar so as a friend i asked if i could crash at her place... on the walk back she confronted me and was like 'why are you acting so different? are you trying to get with me?" to which i was like "no, im just sick of being that nice guy all the time.. he always looses... im just trying to put myself out there be more social, you know.... you always say i would be such a good boyfriend" she was still upset so i said "fine, look maybe you just don't understand, i think i might just head back to my place" i started to leave.. "no, wait she says.. just stay at my place" when we got there she invited me to sleep in her bed and she would go sleep with her sister. so i hoped in.. she changed and said "actually ill just crash here too." i said "ok.. dont get any ideas though".. 5 minutes later my hands were down her pants... no f-close but i hope this helps..

after, act like it was no big deal.. dont even need to talk about it.. it will only get awkward if you make it awkward.. if she sees that you can still have what you had but also be sexual... "mission accomplished"

Author:  B-radd [ Tue May 27, 2008 12:44 am ]
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dude by the sounds of it, even if you banged her you will just be leading her on, she will want a relationship even more.
Stage 5-clinger

Author:  Selective [ Tue May 27, 2008 2:27 am ]
Post subject:  stage 5 clinger

there is no such thing as "a stage 5 clinger" only stage 5 closers. If you imply a promise of something more a girl will expect it.

What I like to do is get her talking about a guy and then I tell her how they would be perfect together - that he's probably Prince Charming and all that. Then I don't say i'm going to call or let's do this again or anything like that. Just tell her you might invite her over again when you get your Super Delux Slip and Slide installed or something like that.

that awkward moment, right at the end when she's about to get in her car or walk out the door or whatever....that's when you 'feel' like you should say something. Either be flip or say nothing. Don't let the pressure get to you.

and if you start to make a move on a girl you've known for a long time, remember not to deviate from the game. If she says why are you acting different - it's a shit test - she's trying to reframe you - tell her it's cute the way she likes to try to get in your business - and resume gaming - she's a girl just like the rest of them.

another thing that is really strong here is some NLP -synesthesia - to get you out of the friend zone. Look it up - his name is - ross jeffries.

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