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| Author: | theotherguy [ Sun May 25, 2008 10:54 pm ] |
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I was hanging in the mall with a friend of mine and I saw this girl I remembered from highschool. I haven't seen her in a while so I said hi. She said she didn't remember me which is understandable since I dropped out 2 years ago. I started to walk away and as I was leaving she kinda started to explain why she wouldn't remember me. I toke that as an IoI. We talked for a little and she still didn't remember me. =( I was about to leave and I decide I might as well give her my number. What now? Do you think she digs me? If I remember correctly I think I got at least 2 IoIs from her.(Her stopping me when I was walking away and eye contact.) Do you think she'll call? What do I do if she calls? I don't do this too often so I don't know what to expect or even to expect anything. |
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| Author: | Romantic100 [ Sun May 25, 2008 11:05 pm ] |
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Here is a lesson on giving women your number..YOU DONT..Because thier going to show it off to thier girlfriends or either throw it in the garbage...BAD MOVE...You trade numbers that would be the best if a girls not going to give you hers. And if she does call be on the gaurd because she might use you PERIOD.. I dont want you to end up embarrassed or nothing.Its a dumb trick girls play. |
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| Author: | Killians [ Sun May 25, 2008 11:06 pm ] |
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Giving a girl your number is a big no no. You should have asked for hers. That way the control is in your hands. If she calls don't answer the first time and wait awhile before returning the call. Pretend like you were busy. Play it cool and try to set up a day 2. |
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| Author: | stereomuse [ Sun May 25, 2008 11:06 pm ] |
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should have gotten her number man. now its all up to her and youve gotta wait. its really a wildcard whether or not shes gonna call. depends on the girl. from what youve said you probably could have gotten something going if youd have gotten her number given the IOIs. but you gave all the power to her by giving her your number. personally, i wouldnt wait up. i'd get other prospects going and if she calls then great! |
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| Author: | Scum17 [ Sun May 25, 2008 11:06 pm ] |
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The fact that she ran back to you to talk and explain everything means that she digs you. she had some interest there or otherwise she would have walked away from the beginning. If it ended well she will call you, ive noticed girls take there sweet ass time to call a guy once you hand them your number, which is why i always try to get a girls before i give them mine. Good eye contact reveals your confident, and girls love that cause it shows your interested in what they are saying and vise versa. the best thing to do is to wait it out, and when she calls DHV yourself , say you were just doing something with the guys so it seems like your busy. keep the conversation short and to the point, so if you dig this girl get a meet up time down with her and go from there |
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| Author: | theotherguy [ Mon May 26, 2008 12:23 am ] |
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Quote: Here is a lesson on giving women your number..YOU DONT..Because thier going to show it off to thier girlfriends or either throw it in the garbage...BAD MOVE...You trade numbers that would be the best if a girls not going to give you hers. And if she does call be on the gaurd because she might use you PERIOD.. I dont want you to end up embarrassed or nothing.Its a dumb trick girls play. Lesson learned >.<
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| Author: | Mr Fahrenheit [ Mon May 26, 2008 1:07 am ] |
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Quote: Giving a girl your number is a big no no. You should have asked for hers. That way the control is in your hands.
Thats garbage, utter garbage. Do not listen to this reply.. Listen to mine. If she calls don't answer the first time and wait awhile before returning the call. Pretend like you were busy. Play it cool and try to set up a day 2. Giving out your number AS OPPOSED to getting hers is an undesirably situation yes, but its not the end of the world. If she calls, pick up.. say something like 'heey, im glad you called, what have you been up to since we last spoke?' Talk to her, be engaging and charming. Not cold and arrogant. You did well approaching and handled the 'i dont remember you' situation well. Just work on getting her number rather than giving yours. |
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| Author: | Rye Lee [ Mon May 26, 2008 10:36 pm ] |
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The reason why you don't give a girl your number isn't because it makes you not look like a man, or because they will make fun of you and throw your number away. Sure, that shit happens when you don't do a good job of running game on her and closing, but otherwise, most girls are just people, not raving psycho bitches for fuck's sake. No, the real reason you don't give her your number without getting hers as well, is because girls often end up chickening out and not calling you because of social programming that tells them the man is supposed to be in charge (that's the closest it gets to what Killian was talking about, it's not because it makes you look weak, it's because they don't usually have the balls for it). They also end up getting busy and forgetting, because theres a million guys out there that want to get with them, so you're just one more guy, unless you did an exceptional job with them. So get her number, give her the chance to call you and if you don't hear from her, then you can give her a call in a couple days and ask her what she's been up to, then tell her you should meet up at some point to continue the fun you were having the other day. |
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