so i just tell u what i did yesterday...
i was in starbucks with a couple of friends and two girls (1 HB 8.5) sat just behind us. after two mins i went there and tried with the Style approach, the HB was at the phone in the meanwhile, whit low tone voice+eye contact i said:
"can i ask u a question? just two mins, i need a female option. how would u feel going out with a guy who's still friend with his ex-gf?"
she looked me back:
"well, a bit weird...dunno if i'd like it!"
in the meanwhile the HB joins us and i explain her with strong eye contact and she replies the same, so i added
"cause, u know, a friend of mine is in this situation and i don't know how to tell him (and add what the girls just told me)"
they just said to be direct and tell him
then i asked their name and where are they from and then....blocked, i didn't know what to say anymore!!!
i would have asked them how long they have been friend and try the trick of "do u use the same hair shampoo?" and see their eye movements + some other stuff...but on the moment i got stuck, didn't know how to do transition!
...so, shame on me, i just said "ok tnks, have a good day"...and left with my friends
....and i'v seen them looking at me while i was leaving and giggling as if they were waiting for more...
....so, after this...how can i get un-stuck in these situations??
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