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Author:  hoangtung [ Sun May 25, 2008 6:24 am ]
Post subject:  First attempt...success but...(HOW TO BF CRUSH? :( )

After reading a lot of stuff about picking up and tralala, I finally gathered up the courage to open a girl today. (AA is still hard to overcome)
So today, I went to my future college to do a placement test for next year, I finished it but had to wait for a few buddies of mine to finish theirs. I went to take a walk on the school's campus and noticed a girl was sitting there alone reading a journal. I went up to her and asked her if the spot is free, she said yeah and I sat down and started talking to her...surprisingly, she just arrived to Canada 3 months ago from Vietnam, which was a great opportunity for me to try something since I was Vietnamese too. So we talked about anything and everything, I think she was giving me IOI's but I'm still not too sure, she was playing with her hair a lot at one point. Then, I learned she was waiting for her friend too, at first I thought it would be a female friend, but I pretty worked it subtilely to understand that it was her boyfriend. I did like nothing mattered and continued my play. Then I saw my friends coming out, I took the occasion to make up a time constraint and (yes, I know, I messed here) asked her for her phone number. It came out just like that... :(
She gave me hers and asked for mine, so we exchanged contacts, and I went off.

Later that day, I was fooling with my friends at downtown, and who do I find? That girl, lol. She was with her boyfriend tho, nothing special I told myself, he didn't look that great. I somehow befriend him and led him into not seeing me as a threat by ignoring the girl as I opened the guy. I ended up with the guy asking for me number, which I refused to give, so he asked me for my email address....

As I wrote this, he just added me to his contact list, hehe.
The reason of this wall of text is...what are BF breakers/crushers??
I often see people talking about it, saying that one should use it, but I've yet read about this tactic...any help please? :)

Author:  kanye [ Sun May 25, 2008 6:31 am ]
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That is NICE! for your first time. I just did my first one this weekend and the girls I was opening said they were waiting for their boyfriends. I just ejected from the set immediately, felt like a wuss. I saw them with their bfs later, LOL those guys could have whooped my ass. That was good for you to keep on trucking. I don't know any boyfriend crushers though...

Author:  hoangtung [ Sun May 25, 2008 2:21 pm ]
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Well, from what I understood by reading The Game, BF's should be treated even more importantly than the chick. If you give him enough attention, he won't think that you're trying to destroy him, lol... but for that matter...still need to learn about it...
Maybe there's a chapter about it in The Game? I didn't finish it yet, I'm about half the book. :S

Author:  hoangtung [ Mon May 26, 2008 10:16 pm ]
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sorry, but I really could use an answer.

Author:  omarisocialite [ Mon May 26, 2008 10:48 pm ]
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The Game is just a story, it's not really for learning how to play. If you're looking for techniques, you should try reading some of the other stuff out there like the mystery method, David D'Angelo's cocky/funny, or anything Ross Jefferies.

Author:  hoangtung [ Tue May 27, 2008 12:10 am ]
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Actually, many things we read on forums are from The Game, it's not simply a story, most openers I read about is from it.... I did also read the MM....
Well, still need answer, lol

Author:  B-radd [ Tue May 27, 2008 12:21 am ]
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Ok so assess the situation, the bf likes you, and the gf likes you. Since the bf was showing interest in you, like trying to befriend you, its probably b/c he feels threatened by you.
You have her #, so i would start with some text game. Send her semi-flirty texts, and eventually gain enough of her trust to get her to hang out with you.
I would totally ignore the bf.
Then when you hang out with her, me really interesting and funny, build attraction and escalate some kino, but most importantly, BRING UP THE SUBJECT OF THE BF.

Ask her, "so...how long have you two been togather?"

"is he older than you"

Stuff like that, if she feels attracted to you, she will probably confess doubts about her bf, and they will stick in her mind while the positive things about you do too.

Keep it up and hopefully the BF will be destroyed.

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