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Can you give examples of foreplay ?
Here's an article I wrote before that may help:
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The basics of making love 
Ok fellas.
How many of you are "minute men?" How many of you get the feeling that you just haven't pleased your partner in bed? How many of you have never given a woman earth-shattering orgasms before?
Lucky for you, you can pay attention to this thread and learn many new things
In Naura Hayden's book, "How to Satisfy a Woman Every Time," she talks about an unfortunate trend called the "Big Bang Theory" where men do nothing but just pound away - BANG BANG BANG BANG - which oftentimes leaves the woman dissatisfied.
I've read a statistic somewhere that if you spend at least 21 minutes in foreplay, 93% of women will experience an orgasms in the intercourse that follows. We men are goal oriented and can't wait to blow the load, but guys... women are in it for the journey! Learn to derive pleasure from giving pleasure and you will both have a wonderful time.
I've found that one of the most important elements of foreplay is TEASING. You give a little, and then take it away, increasing her DESIRE through the roof. Here's a little nifty trick that I like to do: I lean in as if I'm about to kiss her on the lips (the ones on her face) but I turn my face the last second to kiss her on the cheek. I do this again, but this time it's for the other cheek. Then, her chin, forehead, nose, whatever.
During foreplay, be sure to stimulate as many of her senses are possible. For us men we only require to be stimulated visually and kinesthetically, but women want the full shebang. Candles or insence is a nice treat to the olfactories, ice cubes and oils tickle her kinesthetic senses, chocolate strawberries give her tongue a special treat, and telling her all of your dirtiest thoughts captivates her imagination.
Hayden says that, after foreplay, the man should not penetrate her just yet. Run your member on her clitoris and make her WANT IT. Don't give into temptation - make her BEG for it. Once you are both more than ready, continue to tease and take it slowly. Enter inside her just one inch. Pull out slooowly. Then, two inches. Then, three, and so on and so forth, but don't go in all the way yet...
I have also looked into something called "White Tiger Tantra" by Steve Piccus which goes in-depth about sensual massage and fingering technique that opens the channels in a woman that allow her to experience multiple squirting orgasms. The key point, I think, is to get the woman in a state where she is completely comfortable and free to express herself physically. A lot of women hold all of these tensions within them that limit their expressions of intimacy. Proper sensual massage, used in foreplay, can allow them to let go of all of these mundane burdens that have been practically crystalized into their muscles and nerves. If you can, learn massage.
Appreciate and love every inch of her skin. Don't just focus on the hills and valleys. In fact, don't focus on the hills and valleys AT ALL at first. This is another way to tease. She EXPECTS you to be like every other boring man she's been with and expects you to go straight into squeezing the boob and licking the nipple, etc. but DON'T just yet. Make her want it first.
I hope this helps some of you. Have fun!
-Chief
Ok fellas.
How many of you are "minute men?" How many of you get the feeling that you just haven't pleased your partner in bed? How many of you have never given a woman earth-shattering orgasms before?
Lucky for you, you can pay attention to this thread and learn many new things
In Naura Hayden's book, "How to Satisfy a Woman Every Time," she talks about an unfortunate trend called the "Big Bang Theory" where men do nothing but just pound away - BANG BANG BANG BANG - which oftentimes leaves the woman dissatisfied.
I've read a statistic somewhere that if you spend at least 21 minutes in foreplay, 93% of women will experience an orgasms in the intercourse that follows. We men are goal oriented and can't wait to blow the load, but guys... women are in it for the journey! Learn to derive pleasure from giving pleasure and you will both have a wonderful time.
I've found that one of the most important elements of foreplay is TEASING. You give a little, and then take it away, increasing her DESIRE through the roof. Here's a little nifty trick that I like to do: I lean in as if I'm about to kiss her on the lips (the ones on her face) but I turn my face the last second to kiss her on the cheek. I do this again, but this time it's for the other cheek. Then, her chin, forehead, nose, whatever.
During foreplay, be sure to stimulate as many of her senses are possible. For us men we only require to be stimulated visually and kinesthetically, but women want the full shebang. Candles or insence is a nice treat to the olfactories, ice cubes and oils tickle her kinesthetic senses, chocolate strawberries give her tongue a special treat, and telling her all of your dirtiest thoughts captivates her imagination.
Hayden says that, after foreplay, the man should not penetrate her just yet. Run your member on her clitoris and make her WANT IT. Don't give into temptation - make her BEG for it. Once you are both more than ready, continue to tease and take it slowly. Enter inside her just one inch. Pull out slooowly. Then, two inches. Then, three, and so on and so forth, but don't go in all the way yet...
I have also looked into something called "White Tiger Tantra" by Steve Piccus which goes in-depth about sensual massage and fingering technique that opens the channels in a woman that allow her to experience multiple squirting orgasms. The key point, I think, is to get the woman in a state where she is completely comfortable and free to express herself physically. A lot of women hold all of these tensions within them that limit their expressions of intimacy. Proper sensual massage, used in foreplay, can allow them to let go of all of these mundane burdens that have been practically crystalized into their muscles and nerves. If you can, learn massage.
Appreciate and love every inch of her skin. Don't just focus on the hills and valleys. In fact, don't focus on the hills and valleys AT ALL at first. This is another way to tease. She EXPECTS you to be like every other boring man she's been with and expects you to go straight into squeezing the boob and licking the nipple, etc. but DON'T just yet. Make her want it first.
I hope this helps some of you. Have fun!
-Chief
