Hey guys, have been lurking on the forum for the past couple of weeks, and have seen success with the things I’ve tried out, but am new to the game, and wanting to learn from my mistakes!
Okay, so last night I went to party. Have been making moves on a HB-8 for about the last 2 weeks – and had been going really well. Had arranged to meet up some time next week, hadn’t got around to organising it completely yet, but it was definitely on the table.
So rolled up to the party with a few of my mates, knew quite a lot of people at the party, good social proof. I didn’t see the HB after a little look, so was chilling at the bar with my mates having a good time. She comes up to me with bug hug and kiss on the cheek, displaying a lot of interest. We chat at the bar for a bit, then she wants to see the place, asks me to show her around. So we go for a little walk around the place, lead her through bar with my hand on the small of her back, she holds out for my hand, squeezes back when I squeeze her hand. Kino was going easy!
So we have a little walk around, more and more kino and flirting going on. Back to the bar, and got her to buy me a drink, and then suggest we go somewhere a little quieter – there was a room with big sofas where quite a lot of people were chilling in, so we go in there and sit on a big sofa together. Get talking easily, both asking questions, getting lots of IOI, and kino all over the place. Looking back now I realised I should have gone in for the K-Close then, but wasn’t sure at the time. Kind of kicking myself now!
Talk for probably around 15 minutes, going really well I was thinking, suggest we go to the dance floor which she’s all for, a load of my girl friends arrived at this point with big “hi’s” and hugs, social proof getting even better. Dance for a bit, but wasn’t feeling the music so wasn’t completely into it. Some of her mates came over, and I started chatting to them and getting on well with them.
Fast-forward about 20 minutes and I turn around and one of my mates was off (this mate knew I was after this girl), and saying bye to her and then launches in for a kiss. Gets a cheeky second kiss, which really pissed me off, and was then hugging onto her, being all over her? One of my mates went up and got him away from her thankfully.
Then there’s a bit of shit; he realises he’s pissed me off a lot, and is taking me out for a very lengthy heartfelt apology of which I wasn’t really accepting any. She’s coming up to me a lot asking if I’m mad with her and looking pretty upset. Bit more of arguing with the mate and decide I’d had enough, and was leaving with some other people.
Say my goodbyes, she seems upset I’m off, got a little kiss goodbye, but wasn’t really after her anymore at that point, too annoyed at my mate really. I leave with some people, and then she keeps texting me the rest of the night, asking if I’m mad, feels like things have got messed up. After quite a few texts, say I’m alright with her (not sure if I am though) and that I’m off to sleep and to text me tomorrow. So today she texts me, apologising for last night, saying she was too drunk etc, and asks me out on Sunday for her birthday.
Now I suppose, I’m not sure where I stand, I do like her and think it is worth pursuing, but not sure if its viable. What do you guys think? What’s the best way to play this? Should’ve gone for the K-Close when I had the chance shouldn’t I!
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I think she's sincere about feeling bad about last night. She was into you, she wanted you to show her around, she came directly to you to give you the hug. Maybe she's just a kino type of girl and just gave your pal a kiss on the cheek without meaning anything by it. As you wrote it, it was the guy who held her away from you. 