thats a good one....
ill definatley put that to some work..
thanks a bunch
after that i should not start with interview type questions correct?
so maybe i should ask something about????
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| Author: | kx4life07 [ Wed May 21, 2008 9:24 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Hey im new and have a few questions????? |
Ok so i just got the mystery method book and have read most of it and have been doing some field work with openers and getting myself more comfortable with talking to women of all types. The only problem that i have is i will open a set with an opinion opener and after i get there opinion i am kind of lost on where to go after that.... i mean i know i need to keep talking to keep them interested but i was kind of hoping that some one out there could kind of tell me where to go from there. any key things to say. |
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| Author: | bandbadboy [ Wed May 21, 2008 9:40 pm ] |
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realize that you need to do about 90 percent of the talking in the first interaction *juggler's 90-10 rule* ok so what you should do is neg her about something, ANYTHING then make it playful, then use the conversational technique of bantering. This makes you more fun to be talking to and creates games/inside jokes between the two of you |
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| Author: | B-radd [ Wed May 21, 2008 9:44 pm ] |
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always have a follow up for your opener. Whether its a comment on their answers or a DHV story. |
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| Author: | kx4life07 [ Wed May 21, 2008 9:48 pm ] |
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awesome those are some good points. ill definatley try them out. do you guys have any examples of a neg or a DHV followed by any good opener you use? |
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| Author: | B-radd [ Wed May 21, 2008 9:51 pm ] |
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the opener i use the most is -->Make eye contact with tbhe girl, hen make a shocked look and approach her. PUA:"omg! I almost wore the same outfit tonight!" HB's: hahahaha good thing you didnt! PUA: yeah, you would have looked terrible compared to me. -->its alwasy easy to go from there, you'll have there interest, and you've already negged them once. |
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| Author: | kx4life07 [ Wed May 21, 2008 10:02 pm ] |
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thats a good one.... ill definatley put that to some work.. thanks a bunch after that i should not start with interview type questions correct? so maybe i should ask something about???? |
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| Author: | B-radd [ Thu May 22, 2008 9:05 am ] |
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Well since that one is more of an ice breaker/neg, if the convo doesnt flow naturally after that i would then add an opinion opener and a false time constraint to that. "hey i gotta go in a min cause me and my friends are doing shots, but while im here i need female opinion on something..." Then have solid DHV ready for after that (explanation to asking their opinion), then try to get kino in there too, and maintain interest and control of the conversation |
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| Author: | kx4life07 [ Fri May 23, 2008 9:37 pm ] |
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awesome! that helped out alot |
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| Author: | russianbear [ Fri May 23, 2008 10:00 pm ] |
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I, personally, don't use a lot of negs. One thing I do, however, that might help you. Take all of your openers, and stack 'em. For example, start off with the shady guy opener (see style's shit if you don't know what this is). once that has faded, go immediately into the next thing, C vs. U shaped smile, best friends test, another opinion opener. Have a few things ready to talk about. So fucking what if they don't mesh. It can be better than letting the conversation die. Style also talks about going past the painful point. in other words, force yourself to stay after it's gotten akward. you'll learn some things. with practice and experience you'll get better. i'm still in the early stages, but this is getting easier for me. |
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| Author: | kx4life07 [ Fri May 23, 2008 11:19 pm ] |
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that sounds good as well ill definatley use them both.... thanx alot guys. where can i find that shady guy opener tho? |
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| Author: | russianbear [ Fri May 23, 2008 11:50 pm ] |
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Quote: where can i find that shady guy opener tho?
Buy "Rules of the Game." It's in there. It's a good one, too. There are a lot, just browse these boards for good openers. pm me, I have a list I can send you of openers I use.
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