| PUA Forum https://pick-up-artist-forum.com/ |
|
| A hole in my game. https://pick-up-artist-forum.com/viewtopic.php?f=6&t=21968 |
Page 1 of 1 |
| Author: | rattle [ Sat May 17, 2008 10:04 am ] |
| Post subject: | A hole in my game. |
I'm new to this blog but I've been working on PUA skills for about 8 years now. I still have a major hole in my game and I hope someone can help me. I have a great approach/contact stage in my game...I've developed some of my own techniques and for the most part it works well. I do well at fluffing, I'm getting better at negging, and I've got deadly closes. I have an opener that is so smooth it bypasses directly into interest and kino. the trouble I'm having is with moving into some deeper conversation, away from the everyday fluff and into a more emotional conversation. Once I get the conversation to an emotional level I simply use a phase shift and a three second rule to determine my close technique, if after the conversation trails off she doesn't hold eye contact for three seconds I simply say that I'd like to continue this conversation and get her number (and move on)...if she does hold eye contact I touch her (kino) and if she gives any kind of positive IOI I move in and kiss her. From there I find it easy, or relatively easy. I'll give an example. To start with I only approach 9's and 10's but my specialty is approaching two groups (both women). I'm a traveller (solo backpacker) and so I've developed a technique for improvising a wing. I simply bring along a completely new friend (who I met in a hostel or elsewhere) from an exotic location. Upon entering a bar I choose a target, approach immediately as if I've known them for years and introduce my new friend to them, beginning with the target's friend. It works beautifully because my "wing" is interesting enough just being from an exotic place and can hold the 'friend's' attention. At this point I don't acknowledge either myself or the target and I simply listen to my "wing" speak. The target gets antsy here and everytime I've used this technique the target has begun a conversation with me...and shown immediate interest. Perhaps this is where my trouble lies in that I start fluffing from there and I lose the conversation when the small talk loses it's luster. I need to find a way of closing the gap between the small talk and where I can begin looking for a way to close. I need to create more emotional conversation or invent a gimmick of some sort. I picked up a numerology book and I think that's on the right track. Still, how do I generate that emotional connection? Any ideas? |
|
| Author: | Bidyah [ Sat May 17, 2008 5:49 pm ] |
| Post subject: | |
What Blog?  8 Years? shit... and you are still stuck on negs *rofl* ... People that brag online never seem to seize to amaze me...  Quote: I'm having is with moving into some deeper conversation
That should be like the easiest one. YOu can't relate to people and their experiences?Emotional connection, just tell her an emotional story from your life. Once you open up she will too. Simple as that. |
|
| Page 1 of 1 | All times are UTC |
| Powered by phpBB® Forum Software © phpBB Group http://www.phpbb.com/ |
|