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Author:  B-radd [ Fri May 16, 2008 2:39 am ]
Post subject:  Opening HB's that are older than you

Hey guys, first off I'm brand new to this forum, so what’s up.

Anyways, I'm 20, and I'm no newb to pickup. However, I've been used to sarging at university, where there are plenty of HB’s everywhere you look, night or day.
My problem is that this summer, I am staying with my brother in Fort McMurray, a city full of oil-sands workers that has 6 guys to every girl.
Now whenever I go out, it is with my brother and his friends, and they are 25-26ish, and we always are at places with an older crowd, like all HB’s are at least 2 years older than me.
So does anyone have any advice on how to open women that are a few years older/more mature than you, and are used to constantly being hit on by rig-pigs?

Author:  Goldeneye [ Fri May 16, 2008 2:57 am ]
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I'm no expert by any means on picking up older women, but I would say just do your regular thing. I imagine they'd find you refreshing merely for being different from the norm, and that oughta at least buy you some precursory attention and get your foot in the door. I'm 24 and I recently picked up a 29 year old (though to be fair I thought that one was my age when I first approached) and a 31 year old...those are the first two "older women" I've ever actually tried for, and they picked up just like anybody else. I didn't have to change anything. I think you would only really need to consider altering your game if you were trying to go for someone, like, a full decade or more older.

Author:  B-radd [ Fri May 16, 2008 3:05 am ]
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haha alright, your probably right.
Its just so strange going from where i'm used to so much social value and selection, then being plunged into a world where i know noone, and there is so much more pressure and competition.
Its like getting approach anxiety all over again lol

Author:  Goldeneye [ Fri May 16, 2008 3:33 am ]
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There's only more pressure and competition because of the odds. But all the guys around there are the same type, you said. That's gotta get old for the ones who do or did like them, and there are bound to be some girls who never liked that type in the first place. There's more pressure and competition, but YOU'RE an exciting new variable being dropped into the equation because you're the one who's different. You get social value just by walking into a room and not looking like all the others. Pack brightly-colored clothing so you stick out even more. When you walk into a bar, you want to announce in every way that you are NOT the standard.

Author:  Goldeneye [ Fri May 16, 2008 3:35 am ]
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Wow, just looked that place up. It's not even a CITY anymore...it's an "unincorporated community." They got less than fifty thousand people there. Odds are there ain't a single person in that town who knows PUA. Dude, work your shit out! 8)

Author:  B-radd [ Fri May 16, 2008 3:45 am ]
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Yeah i know man, its brutal.
I can't wait for the summer to be over to go back to school lol.
In the meantime, thanks for the advice, i frequent bright colors anyways, so i think that will stand out great against dirty steel-toed boots lol.
and your right, noone up here probably does know pu, maybe ill even try some solo shit

thanks goldeneye!

Author:  tester [ Fri May 16, 2008 7:42 am ]
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Im not at all into the game yet, but working with alot of older/"older" women, i started as a joke referring to them as girls, instead of ladies/women. Seems like they almost got a high from it, feeling young/younger... Most powerful when there were a gruop of them, it seems.

After this, ive started to say this to every woman older than me, and no negative response yet, on the contrary. I would imagine girls under a certain age would like to be considered women, though i have noe idea where the limit is, but might seem like every girl finished college feels too old :P

Not too much to game on, but just thought id throw it out there...

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