| PUA Forum https://pick-up-artist-forum.com/ |
|
| Keeping Dominant in a Conversation https://pick-up-artist-forum.com/viewtopic.php?f=6&t=21880 |
Page 1 of 1 |
| Author: | The_Shadow [ Thu May 15, 2008 9:04 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Keeping Dominant in a Conversation |
This is hard for me... Lets talk about 2 scenarios. 1. You and 3 Girls You talk with them, and its going fine, but then what if they start talking amongst themselves, and you get left out. For instance: You: Blah blah Girl 1: Blah blah Girl 2: Omg Ashley! Look at her shoes. And then they get into their own convo with you right there. How do you get in, or break them out of it? 2. You and a girl and an AMOG It's you, this HB, and an AMOG. Let's forget about picking-up girls, and just focus on conversation and interaction. This AMOG has got the girl laughing, and they're talking, and you just don't seem to be a part of it, yet you're there. Theres no where to walk away to, so you just have to be there and watch. How do you knock out the AMOG and get the conversation on you, without breaking their thing up and seeming rude? This is all hard for me, because my conversing wavers. Meaning, I'll talk, and then just feel a need to shut up or stop talking, or worry I'm sounding annoying and just be quiet. Or sometimes, just become disinterested, when I don't really want to. Help would be great. |
|
| Author: | The_Shadow [ Fri May 16, 2008 1:08 am ] |
| Post subject: | |
Bump A forum full of PUAs and no one knows anything about this? |
|
| Author: | biofire [ Fri May 16, 2008 1:54 am ] |
| Post subject: | |
I'm nowhere near being a pro in this field, so don't take my word for fact. I'd say this plays a lot when you 1st meet up. If you start right away with engaging conversation where the attention is on you, then your conversation partners are very unlikely to go into either of these situation. So part of it would be to be more interesting, more attractive, more alpha, and keep their attention right from the get go. Now if it already happened, what I would do is to wait for one to end their sentence and butt in right away with a comment on what they just said. Right after, I'd follow with a story related to that. Then I'd look to multi-thread that conversation and I'll be set for a few dozen minutes. Sometimes it might seem cut, and unnatural, but if you follow up with something good, they won't remember they noticed it was rude. |
|
| Author: | Method One [ Fri May 16, 2008 1:58 am ] |
| Post subject: | |
It depends on the situation and surroundings for both of em. For the two girls, when they get into it, just speak loudly and confident to get there attention and say somethin like "hey guys check this out, Did you ever hear about blah blah" and their attentions yours... just maintain it. I'll edit this post for advice on an amog but im goin to bed |
|
| Author: | abc1555 [ Fri May 16, 2008 2:07 am ] |
| Post subject: | |
I really want to know this too |
|
| Author: | Bidyah [ Fri May 16, 2008 9:12 am ] |
| Post subject: | |
1. In the first instance just call them out on it in a funny way. "Ladies, I was in the middle of telling you my masterpiece... not telling now... it'll cost you a drink(or whatever)" It's really not that big of a deal all you have to do is re-capture their attention , quickly. Or just say "OMG, yea those shoes are hot." or "Those shoes? Are you kidding... my grandma has that pair!" Bottomline: It's not a biggie, just call them out, or go with it. 2. Quote: This AMOG has got the girl laughing, and they're talking, and you just don't seem to be a part of it, yet you're there.
Obviously, you did something way before then wrong. Don't even let it get there.Let's say you really can't avoid this situation, all you can do is try to get into the conversation or AMOG the amog... |
|
| Page 1 of 1 | All times are UTC |
| Powered by phpBB® Forum Software © phpBB Group http://www.phpbb.com/ |
|