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| Author: | Foreseen [ Thu May 15, 2008 3:42 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Forgetting my lines |
So, I've been reading up on PUA topics for quite some time now. I know the lines, I know some games, pretty much got the script down. Problem is when I decide to go up to a set, I start fumbling and forgetting what to say. My AA gets so bad, I literally can't remember a thing. Has anyone had this kind of problem? How do I get passed it? |
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| Author: | mcslut4 [ Thu May 15, 2008 4:01 pm ] |
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i never learns the lines word for word... if you internalize the ideas, and make it your own you should be fine.. i dont think that if you cant talk to a girl already a bunch of prewritten lines will change that. u need to be confident and then you should be able to say whatever (canned or not) |
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| Author: | Bidyah [ Thu May 15, 2008 4:09 pm ] |
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Practice... and better inner game. It will automatically go through the roof once you have a couple of successes trust me, it's that simple. You just have be willing to jump into the cold water. You will be back here soon enough saying that you have a problem being too cocky, haha.  peace 
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| Author: | Solomon II [ Thu May 15, 2008 10:39 pm ] |
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Script? Holy shit. If you're standing in front of a group of girls and you try to remember things word for word, guess what? You're gonna look weird. PUA is not about a script you read to a girl, wait for her reaction, then formulate the best response based on what you've read for that exact reaction... you're not a fucking computer. You've probably read hundreds of pages worth of PUA material, and I can guarantee you only a very small amount of that has stuck with you. You're trying way too hard by remembering lines and stuff... lemme tell you about my friend, cos I don't want you going through the same thing. The guy who introduced me to PUA is similar to you. He doesn't have everything internalised, so while talking to a girl his brain is in overdrive. He is trying to maintain eye contact, watch her body language, figure out the best body language he should be using, when to touch her, which routine to use, which routine to stack onto that one, trying to figure out the best way to DHV, and a plethora of other shit... the human brain can only concentrate on one thing at a time so all he does is confuse himself. When I watch him I can actually tell by his eyes that he's thinking like crazy, and if I can see it, no doubt girls can see something strange in his eyes aswell. Eye contact is extremely important, and when you try to remember something your eyes will dart to one side to retrieve the information. So, either you break your eye contact in the middle of a sentence, or you concentrate on keeping your eyes locked on her and are unable to think. If there's something weird going on with your eyes it will make you look nervous - this is one of the main reasons to get your game internalised, so you can relax and have fun. The best way is to stop giving a shit about what she thinks... why are you trying to impress her anyway? Just a girl. What I'm saying is, don't treat talking to girls like a task or a chore, don't make it monotonous. It's not a big deal. You want to have fun and enjoy talking to girls, and with all this stuff running through your mind there's no way in hell you can be having fun. Relax, use an opener you like and just talk to them like a normal person and joke round with them. Better yet, don't try to pick them up until you talk to a few girls in a friendly way and get comfy around them. Talk to them the same way you'd talk to your friends, and you'll see how nice they can be. I made friends with a lot of girls in the office I used to work in, and a good handful of them were hot as hell... I didn't try to game them because it'd be embarassing if I fucked it up, so I just made friends. It worked in my favour, thanks to talking to them every day and sitting close to them I was able to warm to new girls very quickly and make them comfortable also. Next time you go out just have fun. Don't try to have fun, go with a few friends and have a laugh, and don't take it seriously. PUA is not dogma. |
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| Author: | dode69 [ Thu May 15, 2008 11:59 pm ] |
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I agree with the above statements............. come up with ur own shit/experiences and use them with material twist maybe......... its all about ur delivery anyways |
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| Author: | Matt Bo Bat [ Fri May 16, 2008 2:36 am ] |
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Canned material is only a small bonus. If you want to be succesful it has to be mostly you. Girls will see right through your little line for line routines if thats all you have to offer. The truly succesful ones are those who are experienced and outgoing in social interactions and understand what buttons to push to manipulate the situation. I would tell you to forget lines and work on body language and confidence. the rest will come in time. Good luck 
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| Author: | B-radd [ Fri May 16, 2008 5:14 am ] |
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Canned =  the only thing canned info is good for is MAYBE openers sometimes. Once you get past that threshhold, then focus on the moment your in. Use the situation to your advantage. try and get the conversation flowing naturally, then if needed, throw in Negs, and if it feels right initiate kino. Try and find common ground, thats the easiest way to keep a convo going smoothly, because you actiually enjoy what you are talking about. |
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