lol, you should use some paragraphs.
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| Author: | rookie41102 [ Wed May 14, 2008 2:19 am ] |
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Hey whats up? Here is my story and why im here. ( Ive read/reading about PUA, The Game - I even bought Neil Straus' The StyleLife Challenge - 30 days if anyone else has used it can I get some feedback both positive/negative - Did it really work / xform you? - ) Before I came here and my most recent divorce. ( Married 2 times, have a kid with another ) I guess I had somewhat of natural game. I was a flirt. I had lots of numbers and more than average guy's number in lays. I was no where near Alpha, or stranger picking up. Most of mine was co-workers, friends, etc. That I flirted with and took em to the next level. So in essence I had time to play cat and mouse or w.e. you wanna call it. I was satisfied. I knew if I had the time I could get most girls to date me. ( I was more on quality not quantity...When I was 21, that was a different story. When my 1st wife ( I got married at 20 ) and I split. I met 2 other girls. Played them off at the same time. Got back with my ex-wife ( for casual sex ) and she knew about the other 2 women. I ended up playin or dating all 3 of them and they knew about each other. I was out of highschool, star player - 2nd most popular @ the school I went to. I was cocky and funny as hell. I didnt care what anyone thought. The girls was just cuties HB6-7s. After a few more long-term relationships I would say I became pussywhipped. When the relationships was over, I had no confidence. I would get girls now only like I mentioned before, working with them, getting to know them, playing off the nice guy, but throw flirting in the mix. Id compliment and smile an evil smile. Theyd flirt back. Then I met my last ex-wife this way. Through work. It started with a note she wrote me about another girl. ( I sat across from her @ a telemarketing place. Best way to communicate. Write notes =D ) One thing lead to another and we was dating, I moved in with her like 2 weeks later...( She was at least an hb8-9 in my opinion. Shit almost every guy hit on her... ) Then we got another job 2gether. We was working, playing, hanging out 24/7 you couldnt seperate us. The energy, everyone could feel. Her and I had this connection it was fuckin crazy. Fast forward. We are working on a family, she finally got pregnant. 2-3 months later she starts to change. We are arguing all the time, she tells me Im a terrible father, etc. Some of it promoted by me. I started a fire from a flame. Didnt realize it until after the marriage ended. I left her, didnt like being treated without respect. If you love someone you dont put em down right? Get up in their face and scream at them? I had enough I left. I still called to check on her and the baby. ( When I first mentioned leaving here before I left she threatened Abortion....That killed me...How can this girl, my wife want to kill an innocent baby...especially when it was planned, not an accident? ) I left anyways. But was still checking on her and the baby. At first she talked, but was pissed off at me, b/c I left her and her 2 kids I helped raised. I told her Ill still be there for the kid. I already have one with another woman. I love kids, Im not a bad father. I knew that. Couple days later her minds changing, she misses me, wants to see me, have the baby...Shes crying, but still mad as hell @ me. She wants me, but doesnt, b/c shes mad and hurt. Shit I told her quit being fuckin evil and bitchy to me all the time. She said I know I am, but im pregnant. Womens hormones change. I cant help it. So we get back together for like a week, still arguing, b/c i want to go out to a friends house. So I ended up leaving her again. This time she was calling me. Being nice, havin me come over for dinner. Which I just blew off. "I cant" Id say. Eventually I still felt for her, here she is callin me, etc. But this time she wouldnt give in. I wanted back, I was mad...I left...I was wrong...She didnt want that. I got mad told her to quit calling then, only to call about the kids or baby and hung up. She called back and left a vm "Fine Were getting a DIVORCE". First time that was said ever. I quit calling her and she never called me. I missed her calling me. Ended up having the divorce and she ended up having the abortion. Said it was b/c I never called her ( For like 2 weeks...... ) - ( She just didnt wanna be single and pregnant...imo. ) I was like WTF. If you didnt want it shoulda gave it to me...It was already done...I was devastated. Here im gettin a divorce, lost my child, and tryin to understand this woman who wanted to get married, get my name tattoo-ed on her neck/wedding band - have my babies do such a thing....How? Maybe it was all my fault. She was there and tried and I pushed her away....I fell to deep depression. My buddies all like man, theres more people that love you more than she ever did. Tellin me to move on, but I was hung on her ( One-itis ) I never called her or attempted to contact her. 3 months later, boom she txts me "Hey how are you doin?" Stupid me, replies..."Great. How are you? Hows the kids?". Nothing more than a few more txts from her and me similar to that. So now I stumble apon The Stylelife Challenge...Set it aside, reading a little bit. I begin to workout everyday. Still thinking Im doin this for her. Once Im buff and sauvy again shell want me back. Funny thing is I missed her, but never came to call her or txt her...Im at the point now I come across this site and a few others about PUA. My game is gone. I have none at all now...Had just a little, but I have none now. It was all b/c of her. All b/c of the relationship/marriage I was in. We was only married 4 months out of the yr. we dated. What Has happened to me? In my late teens 19-25-26ish I could get layed. I have no confidence now. No flirting abilities. Im sad. Im over her yes. Thanks to this site and others. Saying there plenty others out there that will respect you and want you for you and shit. Damn, I vented alot! lol. Shit my bad...But does anyone know what happened to me? I think I got lost in one girl and lost it with all girls...Hopefully Ill be back on track soon with TheGame. I have a new attitude now after reading everyones posts, theories, etc. You all really helped me out alot. Thanks again! -Persona |
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| Author: | Gay [ Wed May 14, 2008 2:23 am ] |
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Your welcome. =D |
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| Author: | tsar [ Wed May 14, 2008 3:44 am ] |
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My man, welcome to the community! All the qualities that made you successful u still have, they didnt dissapear just cause u got married. Ur still that pimp dude that is an amazing flirt just find within yourself to beleive that you are and i have no doubt that you will be back in action soon enough |
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| Author: | rookie41102 [ Wed May 14, 2008 4:10 am ] |
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haha. true. true. It does come out when Im not thinkin about it. Thanks for the confidence boost man. |
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| Author: | Bidyah [ Wed May 14, 2008 12:32 pm ] |
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lol, you should use some paragraphs.
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