Dude, first thing first, I want you to disconnect emotionally from the outcome.
You are the prize. Believe that.
Now make a plan on what you were going to do anyways, lunch, shop at the mall, whatever, just don't go out of your way to impress.
When you call, use an opener.
for example:
If you are going to the mall.
her - hello?
you - real quick I need a womans opinion, I am going to the mall later, i'm looking into changing my style, what mens clothing stores would you suggest?
her - blah blah blah
you - what are you doing at (whatever time you planned on going)
her - either buisy or not
if not
you - good, ill pick you up/meet me at the mall, I need your help, plus theres this cookie place I promise one bite and your hooked on them, I bet they put crack in those things, lol.
if buisy.
you - well I was going to let you help me out, and I was going to show you my favorite snack shop thats to die for, id tell you more about it but I got to go (read her, on if she says are you going to call back, check the tonality of her voice)
If she says yes, great! If she says no, bummer
Just remember, you dont have control over that part, what you do have control over is asking her out to the best of your ability. That is the diffrence between success and failure. You only fail if you do not try.
happy hunting
-Jazzy
