I'd suggest that you don't go on a "date" for your Day 2. There is a reason we call it a "Day 2" and not a "1st Date". Just hang out somewhere, do something that isn't a date and it will go a lot smoother, cause there is less pressure, it's much less awkward, there are no expectations, you can do something that is comfortable for you, giving you more confidence, control, etc.
- I like the mall, there's lots of random stuff to do in random stores in the mall, gives you a lot of opportunities to display different parts of your personality and find different parts of hers.
- Your house is good, cause you know what's there and what you can do. Have some ideas, don't just ask her what she likes to do. Videogames are good, if she doesn't play, then something The Saint told me he likes to do, is just get up in the middle of whatever you are doing if you are bored and go play video games, or watch a movie. She'll follow and she'll sit there and watch and beg for attention.
DO NOT
- Go to the movies.
- Go out to dinner (you can make dinner at your place IF that's something you like to do, not something to impress her).
- Go to a sporting event that you can't talk easily.
- Pander to her wants: If she wants to do something that you don't want to do, then don't do it. The reverse is ok, as long as it's not something that she will HATE, just something that she isn't as interested in, cause then she'll be paying attention to you, not whatever you are doing; it shows compliance and attraction.
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