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| Author: | Irresistible [ Tue May 06, 2008 9:15 pm ] |
| Post subject: | What to do when you get IOIs? |
Hi, I am very new to the game, I've just been digesting this stuff... and I have a question to ask: what do you do when you get IOIs? Should you go straight to comfort building since the woman is obviously attracted to you and is giving you signals to approach here? Or should one go through the whole process (build attraction etc etc etc). |
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| Author: | SiNfUl [ Tue May 06, 2008 9:26 pm ] |
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Build attraction, building attraction is paramount. I'm not sure what you mean by 'the whole process'. If you are having fun and enjoying yourself, it shouldn't be a 'process'...know what I mean? |
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| Author: | Irresistible [ Tue May 06, 2008 10:05 pm ] |
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thanks sinful. What I am saying is you get a strong IOI (the woman is constantly looking and smiling at you, she initiates the conversation etc). I mean she's obviously attracted to you, so why should you DHV yourself for instance or neg her? Getting IOIs means she is attracted, right? Shouldn't I go straight to comfort building since the attraction is already there? |
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| Author: | SiNfUl [ Tue May 06, 2008 10:44 pm ] |
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so why should you DHV yourself for instance or neg her This only comes into play when she starts to get bratty, snotty or tests you (which is bound to happen sooner or later). If you want this tactic to be effective , use it with a hint of playfulness, unless she turns into a total b*tch. Getting IOIs means she is attracted, right? No, this means she is 'interested', there is a difference. Consider it a starting point, this is when you want to start building her attraction. Remember, there is no universal process or method, every situation is different. Read as much information as you can (try not to get confused with all the fancy acronyms) and use what makes sense to 'you'. |
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