let them know your true intention
don't hid it or substitute them by telling otherwise
they'll understand and hopefully continue seeing you
if not, there are billions of girls out there anyway
_Saiko
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| Author: | RevMex [ Mon May 05, 2008 6:28 am ] |
| Post subject: | Is there such thing as letting them down easy? |
Ok I have run into this problem with the last couple of women that I have gotten with. I hang out with them, party with them for like a week or 2 and just have a good time, but then we get to the point where they start to question how our relationship together is going to start developing. I personally enjoy being single and I havnt figured out a way of expressing this to these females that I am "courting" without coming off as a complete asshole/player. Suggestions? |
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| Author: | Rye Lee [ Mon May 05, 2008 7:30 am ] |
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Let them know that you're not at the point in your life, where you're ready to get into an exclusive relationship. You're still interested in seeing them, you just don't want to establish a committed relationship. |
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| Author: | Saiko [ Mon May 05, 2008 7:37 am ] |
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let them know your true intention don't hid it or substitute them by telling otherwise they'll understand and hopefully continue seeing you if not, there are billions of girls out there anyway _Saiko |
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| Author: | leftytheking [ Mon May 05, 2008 6:13 pm ] |
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My key phrase is "emotionally unavailable." When girls want a relationship, it's because they are starting to develop (and want to continue developing) an emotional connection with you. Explain to them that you are emotionally unavailable, and that even though you like them as a person, you can't be in a relationship with them. I usually toss a few references to the joys of single life in coversation, so that the girl isn't caught completely by surprise when I tell her "no." Also something to consider... is your game structured so that you give your target the impression that you want to date her? Think about the *way* your signals come across to her. If you can find anything in your game that gives the wrong impression to a target, fix it. |
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