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Author:  Matias1977 [ Mon Nov 13, 2017 10:42 pm ]
Post subject:  "Ball is in your court" text

Hi guys, just a quick general question. Let's say you're texting a girl and that for whatever reason you can't get her to meet, so you decide to next her. You're not mad at her for crossing a boundary or something, you just decide it's not worth any further effort and move on. In addition to fucking other girls, is it useful to send her a "ball's in your court" type of text? And how would you phrase it? Or better to imply this by cutting contact?

Author:  Arch Stanton [ Mon Nov 13, 2017 11:05 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: "Ball is in your court" text

Never.

Go cold, then a month or two later, direct invite over to your place that night. If she hits you up first in that time, again, invite her over immediately.

You are a dominant, fun male who goes for what he wants. You do not whine. You have options, and if a woman won't join you, it's a shoulder shrug and onto the next, not a bitch whine fest.

Author:  Pilgrim Miester [ Tue Nov 14, 2017 9:06 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: "Ball is in your court" text

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Hi guys, just a quick general question. Let's say you're texting a girl and that for whatever reason you can't get her to meet, so you decide to next her. You're not mad at her for crossing a boundary or something, you just decide it's not worth any further effort and move on. In addition to fucking other girls, is it useful to send her a "ball's in your court" type of text? And how would you phrase it? Or better to imply this by cutting contact?
Don't send her anything. Delete her no and date other women. If she hits you up later down the line, reply "who's this?". If you have other women on the go who make time for you, why should you make time for a chick who couldn't be bothered to make time for you?

If you can fit her in, great, but it's on your terms and not hers.

Author:  Matias1977 [ Wed Nov 15, 2017 2:35 am ]
Post subject:  Re: "Ball is in your court" text

Got it, thanks guys.

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