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| Author: | matador of fun [ Wed Nov 08, 2017 9:00 pm ] |
| Post subject: | chick wants to come with another on our first date. |
Met this chick online.she is very gorgeous.we vibed quite well and i ended up asking for her number.She gave me with a bit of enthusiasm i should say .We chatted and talked on the phone a few times and i asked her out.She agreed to but with one condition. She insists she has to come with a friend to our date.i was a bit taken aback by that because usually when a chick really wants you,she turns up alone and also she is a bit younger than i am,a college student in her first year i think and this crowd of late have some weird tendencies. One being that they are obsessed with an app called snapchat. I don't know if anyone encountered that kind of problem where you take out this young college girls and all they wanna do is take snaps and usually they like going out in groups so when you ask out one,she would come with a couple of friends. Doesn't happen often but sometimes it does with this college girls. Am i just over thinking this?Could she really be interested and that she just wants to feel safe? i don't know but every time i asked out a girl and she came with a friend 9/10 times i later found out that the chick wasn't interested. Occasionally the friend would like me but that doesn't happen often so that is why i am a bit apprehensive and my fear is more pronounced with college girls because they don't really have money and they want to go out so they will go out with any guy who is willing to take them out to a nice place.it is just something i observed. And finally and more alarming is that i found out that i once hit on her elder sister and we ended up fighting.I met the elder sister on Facebook. She gave me her number.I asked her out but she flaked a lot and i got pissed off and i ranted at her and she ended up blocking me.if the elder sister finds out that i am dating her younger sister,i think i am done lol. How do i navigate this two issues:Her wanting to come with her friend on our first date and me having a bad history with the elder sister.Sorry for the long ass post.Any advice would be appreciated. |
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| Author: | Curtis72 [ Thu Nov 09, 2017 11:23 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: chick wants to come with another on our first date. |
Personally, I wouldn't bother if someone else was there and added baggage with her sister. If you are Hell bent on it, then ask if her friend is female and single then invite a handsome pal of your own along. |
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| Author: | DJ_Z [ Thu Nov 09, 2017 8:37 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: chick wants to come with another on our first date. |
I wouldn’t see her then. If you want to, fine, just make sure not to pay for anything of theirs. Not parking, not drinks, nada because as soon as she brings a friend it isn’t a date. |
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| Author: | riverphoenix [ Fri Nov 10, 2017 12:02 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: chick wants to come with another on our first date. |
Why is that a problem. If she brings her friend invite them for drinks and go for a threesome. |
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| Author: | Arch Stanton [ Fri Nov 10, 2017 12:58 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: chick wants to come with another on our first date. |
Quote:
She insists she has to come with a friend to our date.
You: Is your friend getting naked, too?Quote: i was a bit taken aback by that because usually when a chick really wants you,she turns up alone and also she is a bit younger than i am,a college student in her first year i think and this crowd of late have some weird tendencies. One being that they are obsessed with an app called snapchat. I don't know if anyone encountered that kind of problem where you take out this young college girls and all they wanna do is take snaps and usually they like going out in groups so when you ask out one,she would come with a couple of friends. Doesn't happen often but sometimes it does with this college girls.
I don't see how this is a problem.Quote:
Am i just over thinking this?
Yes.Quote:
And finally and more alarming is that i found out that i once hit on her elder sister and we ended up fighting.I met the elder sister on Facebook. She gave me her number.I asked her out but she flaked a lot and i got pissed off and i ranted at her and she ended up blocking me.
Neurotic, crazy behavior. Learn to control your emotions.Go on the date, pay for nothing. An hour in, invite them to your place. Then use the social media thing they so love, ask them to kiss each other while you take a Snap. |
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| Author: | JackZero [ Fri Nov 10, 2017 2:58 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: chick wants to come with another on our first date. |
Did you ask why she wants to bring her friend? |
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| Author: | R.C [ Fri Nov 10, 2017 9:36 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: chick wants to come with another on our first date. |
Oh look. Arch is back to giving advice. You gonna keep dodging Eddy's proposal still or what? @OP, would a woman that is interested in you purposely put herself in a position where things couldn't get intimate? You know, like bring a friend? |
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| Author: | matador of fun [ Fri Nov 10, 2017 10:10 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: chick wants to come with another on our first date. |
Quote: Oh look. Arch is back to giving advice. You gonna keep dodging Eddy's proposal still or what?
Yes that is my thinking.usually when a girl asks to come with a friend it could be out of fear especially if you met online but some do so especially with the young girls, just to fuck with you.So what i do is ask them if they are uncomfortable meeting me alone. If they say yes, i suggest that she suggests the time and place where she will feel comfortable but with the condition that she comes alone.I suggested the same to this chick and when i suggested that she said she can't meet me alone and went on to say 'let's just chat then".
@OP, would a woman that is interested in you purposely put herself in a position where things couldn't get intimate? You know, like bring a friend? Quote: Did you ask why she wants to bring her friend?
Yes and she said because it is our first time.i asked if she is afraid she said No.Then i asked whether she must come with a friend for us to meet.She said yes and then proceeded to say 'let's just chat then'Quote: Quote:
She insists she has to come with a friend to our date.
You: Is your friend getting naked, too?Quote: i was a bit taken aback by that because usually when a chick really wants you,she turns up alone and also she is a bit younger than i am,a college student in her first year i think and this crowd of late have some weird tendencies. One being that they are obsessed with an app called snapchat. I don't know if anyone encountered that kind of problem where you take out this young college girls and all they wanna do is take snaps and usually they like going out in groups so when you ask out one,she would come with a couple of friends. Doesn't happen often but sometimes it does with this college girls.
I don't see how this is a problem.Quote:
Am i just over thinking this?
Yes.Quote:
And finally and more alarming is that i found out that i once hit on her elder sister and we ended up fighting.I met the elder sister on Facebook. She gave me her number.I asked her out but she flaked a lot and i got pissed off and i ranted at her and she ended up blocking me.
Neurotic, crazy behavior. Learn to control your emotions.Go on the date, pay for nothing. An hour in, invite them to your place. Then use the social media thing they so love, ask them to kiss each other while you take a Snap. Quote: I wouldn’t see her then. If you want to, fine, just make sure not to pay for anything of theirs. Not parking, not drinks, nada because as soon as she brings a friend it isn’t a date.
She already suggested that i will pay for everything so i am certain i will be asked to foot the bill if i go on a date with her and her friend.Quote: Personally, I wouldn't bother if someone else was there and added baggage with her sister.
yes their is baggage with her sister but she is incredibly cute.I also don't have a wing.my wing moved away a couple of years ago and i never bothered to get another wing because most of my friends are not into game plus i prefer sarging alone.
If you are Hell bent on it, then ask if her friend is female and single then invite a handsome pal of your own along. |
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| Author: | Pilgrim Miester [ Fri Nov 10, 2017 10:29 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: chick wants to come with another on our first date. |
Quote: Quote: Oh look. Arch is back to giving advice. You gonna keep dodging Eddy's proposal still or what?
Yes that is my thinking.usually when a girl asks to come with a friend it could be out of fear especially if you met online but some do so especially with the young girls, just to fuck with you.So what i do is ask them if they are uncomfortable meeting me alone. If they say yes, i suggest that she suggests the time and place where she will feel comfortable but with the condition that she comes alone.I suggested the same to this chick and when i suggested that she said she can't meet me alone and went on to say 'let's just chat then".
@OP, would a woman that is interested in you purposely put herself in a position where things couldn't get intimate? You know, like bring a friend? Quote: Did you ask why she wants to bring her friend?
Yes and she said because it is our first time.i asked if she is afraid she said No.Then i asked whether she must come with a friend for us to meet.She said yes and then proceeded to say 'let's just chat then'Quote: Quote:
She insists she has to come with a friend to our date.
You: Is your friend getting naked, too?Quote: i was a bit taken aback by that because usually when a chick really wants you,she turns up alone and also she is a bit younger than i am,a college student in her first year i think and this crowd of late have some weird tendencies. One being that they are obsessed with an app called snapchat. I don't know if anyone encountered that kind of problem where you take out this young college girls and all they wanna do is take snaps and usually they like going out in groups so when you ask out one,she would come with a couple of friends. Doesn't happen often but sometimes it does with this college girls.
I don't see how this is a problem.Quote:
Am i just over thinking this?
Yes.Quote:
And finally and more alarming is that i found out that i once hit on her elder sister and we ended up fighting.I met the elder sister on Facebook. She gave me her number.I asked her out but she flaked a lot and i got pissed off and i ranted at her and she ended up blocking me.
Neurotic, crazy behavior. Learn to control your emotions.Go on the date, pay for nothing. An hour in, invite them to your place. Then use the social media thing they so love, ask them to kiss each other while you take a Snap. Quote: I wouldn’t see her then. If you want to, fine, just make sure not to pay for anything of theirs. Not parking, not drinks, nada because as soon as she brings a friend it isn’t a date.
She already suggested that i will pay for everything so i am certain i will be asked to foot the bill if i go on a date with her and her friend.Quote: Personally, I wouldn't bother if someone else was there and added baggage with her sister.
yes their is baggage with her sister but she is incredibly cute.I also don't have a wing.my wing moved away a couple of years ago and i never bothered to get another wing because most of my friends are not into game plus i prefer sarging alone.If you are Hell bent on it, then ask if her friend is female and single then invite a handsome pal of your own along. |
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| Author: | neo87 [ Fri Nov 10, 2017 12:54 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: chick wants to come with another on our first date. |
OP where is your self respect? |
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| Author: | Curtis72 [ Fri Nov 10, 2017 1:38 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: chick wants to come with another on our first date. |
Quote: yes their is baggage with her sister but she is incredibly cute.I also don't have a wing.my wing moved away a couple of years ago and i never bothered to get another wing because most of my friends are not into game plus i prefer sarging alone.
Not saying this to be a cunt, but do you meet that many women? You mentioned ranting and getting angry at her sister for flaking and paying for two others to meet up as friends just because she's cute. This seems to not have long-term potential as her sister will likely try and turn her against you.NEXT HER Since I suspect you'll meet her anyway. Invite your best looking single male friend to keep the other girl occupied. You don't need much or any "game" to fuck on a date. Not that this seems like a date or a "sarging" opportunity when there are two girls around. |
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| Author: | DJ_Z [ Fri Nov 10, 2017 4:42 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: chick wants to come with another on our first date. |
She expects you to foot the bill for her and a random friend?! Fuck that |
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| Author: | Arch Stanton [ Fri Nov 10, 2017 4:53 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: chick wants to come with another on our first date. |
She expects you to pay? Lol. These women have no respect for you. Either ghost them, or go on the date and say you forgot your wallet when the bill comes. |
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| Author: | JackZero [ Fri Nov 10, 2017 5:21 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: chick wants to come with another on our first date. |
This girl is just too much trouble OP. Quote: Oh look. Arch is back to giving advice. You gonna keep dodging Eddy's proposal still or what? Kind of strange how he responds to every little thing except for this. Think he may be hiding something? Lol.
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| Author: | Arch Stanton [ Fri Nov 10, 2017 7:32 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: chick wants to come with another on our first date. |
Nope, just not interested. Thanks, though. |
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