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Author:  Pilgrim Miester [ Sun Sep 10, 2017 10:01 pm ]
Post subject:  Tomboys, anyone been there?
Just thought I would see what people's opinions were on these type of girls.

Not having any issues, but always been a sucker for them and been seeing one for the last few weeks and the sex is mind blowing. Can get on far better with her than with other women and she's naturally hot as well with a fantastic figure.

I've read up in other places that some guys struggle reading them, but some reason I find them an easier lay and on the whole better in bed. They have to be treated slightly differently to get results but all the IOIs are the same. A lot of guys can't read the signals between buddies and sexual interest.

Any of you guys had similar experiences, may hopefully be good reading material for newer guys?

Interested in reading the stories.
Author:  JackZero [ Mon Sep 11, 2017 2:33 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Tomboys, anyone been there?
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They have to be treated slightly differently to get results
Can you elaborate on this a bit because this seems like an issue when it comes to the approach and getting across your intent. I'll use two of your statements that make me believe that.
Quote:
IOIs are the same.
Quote:
A lot of guys can't read the signals between buddies and sexual interest.
To me, this seems like waiting for her permission to go from buddy vibe to a sexual vibe. One of the bad things that this community has done is overblown the importance of IOI's to gauge interest when it is far more important to treat a woman like you are attracted to her. If she is treating you like a buddy, one of two things is happening:
1. You haven't expressed your interest in her, or
2. you've accepted the buddy role.

Here's my point. If you establish that your interest in her is based on attraction to her, you don't have to play women differently based on the type of girl they are because you have set her expectations in the beginning so signals seeking permission and IOI's aren't something that you need to move things forward. Instead, it's her following your lead or falling into your frame.

But again, you may want to just elaborate on what you mean because I'm assuming your mindset and I can very well be wrong.
Author:  rollinz [ Mon Sep 11, 2017 6:38 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Tomboys, anyone been there?
A tomboy is a young lady who exhibits characteristics or Assignment Service practices considered regular of a kid, including wearing manly attire and taking part in games and activities.
Author:  Pilgrim Miester [ Mon Sep 11, 2017 9:09 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Tomboys, anyone been there?
Quote:
Quote:
They have to be treated slightly differently to get results
Can you elaborate on this a bit because this seems like an issue when it comes to the approach and getting across your intent. I'll use two of your statements that make me believe that.
Quote:
IOIs are the same.
Quote:
A lot of guys can't read the signals between buddies and sexual interest.
To me, this seems like waiting for her permission to go from buddy vibe to a sexual vibe. One of the bad things that this community has done is overblown the importance of IOI's to gauge interest when it is far more important to treat a woman like you are attracted to her. If she is treating you like a buddy, one of two things is happening:
1. You haven't expressed your interest in her, or
2. you've accepted the buddy role.

Here's my point. If you establish that your interest in her is based on attraction to her, you don't have to play women differently based on the type of girl they are because you have set her expectations in the beginning so signals seeking permission and IOI's aren't something that you need to move things forward. Instead, it's her following your lead or falling into your frame.

But again, you may want to just elaborate on what you mean because I'm assuming your mindset and I can very well be wrong.
I was on about how the comfort building stage is handled. Like where you take them on a date maybe well be different to a girly girl. In my case the interest was known off the bat, and so the interaction was very kino heavy which led to the first date lay. That first bit is important as else you put yourself in the Friendzone.

With this particular girl I was direct with her with my body language and with my voice, and the good vibe transitioned from there.
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