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| Author: | hoangtung [ Wed Apr 23, 2008 12:03 am ] |
| Post subject: | Question about how to dev. a DHV. |
This is my first post here, so first of all, hi!  So I'm from Montreal, and lately, the Habs were playing with the Bruins...we won, haha. And I'm having a school trip there in a few days, so I just thought about introducing that to my first tries. Anyhow I could DHV by implying that MTL>Boston? Or could this idea be more of a neg? Thanks. |
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| Author: | c_n12 [ Wed Apr 23, 2008 2:24 am ] |
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Welcome to the forum man! It's always good to meet new people coming here to share knowledge. A DHV conveys 4 primary things: * Leader of men (instructor, teacher, head, boss, leader, ect.) * Protector of loved ones (looks after and watches over family and friends) * Willingness to emote (shows emotions) * Preselected by other women Keep those four things in mind whenever you are telling a story and you will convey to a woman that you can meet her primal needs and in doing so set off her attraction triggers. Anything can be a good story. You need to develop your ability to relate and express a story. Once you get good at this, you can create interest out of thin air. Really get into your story. Also never just spill your story out. Instead make your listeners want to hear more. Pause and look at them. Wait for their interest to show. Play on their curiosity and refuse to 'entertain' them. They must show interest on their faces and in their questions or else do not continue - your story and performance is valuable. Try not to just give it away. As for calling one city better than another, that would be more of a neg than a DHV. Being from Montreal can't demonstrate higher value than being from Boston or vice versa. |
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| Author: | hoangtung [ Wed Apr 23, 2008 3:26 am ] |
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Aaaah! Now I properly understand what demonstrating higher values is...I used to immaturely think that it's all about showing that we're superior to the girl...  So, DHV'ing is more telling one of my adventure then, eh? Then, how does one know and properly places a neg? =/ |
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| Author: | c_n12 [ Wed Apr 23, 2008 3:41 am ] |
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Yeah well so did I - happy to help. I once walked up to a girl and introduced myself by grabbing her ass because I thought it was cocky and funny and didn't the concept - it didn't work out as well as I hoped. A neg is another aspect of pickup which is frequently used wrong and misunderstood. A neg is a statement that only someone who didn't care about the HB would say. It's an indicator of disinterest. You do this to make her believe you she has not yet won you over and you do not yet see her as a viable suitor. This neg diminishes her sexual power and disarms her peer group. The power of a neg is in its apparent sincerity. She will think you don't give a shit about trying to impress her and because she is not used to this she will wonder why. The simplest example of this is pulling out a tissue and blowing your nose. She'll sincerely believe that you aren't trying to impress her (otherwise you would never blow your nose in front of her.) It won't even occur to her that it's really a planned technique. You must remember that a neg is never intended to hurt a girl's feelings (many guys overuse or misuse them). It is intended to show her that you are uninterested (don't push the envelop once this is conveyed.) You'll get used to it with practice it's one of the more subtle skills of attraction. - Chris 
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| Author: | hoangtung [ Wed Apr 23, 2008 4:43 am ] |
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Eeeeh! That was quite an explanation compared to the 1-2line def. in the definition sticky. XP Well, I'm still in highschool, and I've never been any great with girls...and lived oneitis for 3-4 years... >_> Anyhow to help me start this out? Currently I'm lurking the forum and reading "The Game". |
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| Author: | H2T08 [ Wed Apr 23, 2008 3:20 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Dhv,s story |
When is the best to say your Dhv,s story during your set and is good to about the past in your Dhv’s story and how many should you have. |
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| Author: | hoangtung [ Wed Apr 23, 2008 8:50 pm ] |
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Ummm......I didn't quite understand that. :S |
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| Author: | c_n12 [ Wed Apr 23, 2008 9:30 pm ] |
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A good DHV is inconpicuous and appeals to a woman on an unconcious level - ideally you should use DHVs whenever they can be fit in to reinforce that you are her "perfect" man. |
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| Author: | hoangtung [ Thu Apr 24, 2008 2:13 am ] |
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Ummm, I guess I get it. So tomorrow is the big day, I'll try to open some girls ... 
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