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Author:  Cross De Lena [ Tue Jul 25, 2017 3:39 pm ]
Post subject:  newbie question
Need opinion from my fellow artists...

Gf currently on vacation, recently she became very horny over text messages, any assumptions as to why is she acting that way?

And should I endorse that behaviour or call her out on her unusual behaviour?
Author:  JackZero [ Tue Jul 25, 2017 3:50 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: newbie question
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Gf currently on vacation, recently she became very horny over text messages, any assumptions as to why is she acting that way?
My guess would be because she's horny.
Maybe it's the lifeguard at the pool. Maybe it's because she went to a strip club. Maybe it's because she misses you. Maybe it's because of some guy talking to her. Who knows.
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And should I endorse that behaviour or call her out on her unusual behaviour?
You've been here for a while. You should know by now what "calling out" does in this type of situation. You become the insecure boyfriend while the girl is away. At the most, all you should do is acknowledge it and let her know that you're going to take care of her when she gets back.
Author:  Cross De Lena [ Tue Jul 25, 2017 4:18 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: newbie question
You're right LOL

I am insecure because in the last 10 days I really got lazy and I have a ton of free time. I need to get back into my routine.
Author:  Eddie Fews [ Wed Jul 26, 2017 7:10 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: newbie question
Sounds to me like you're paranoid and anxious because your girl is away and you don't have the option of seeing her and so you're looking at her through that lens. Because you could only imagine what you would be doing, or want to be doing if you spent 10 days in another country without your significant other.

I believe the fact that she's directing this sexual energy toward you should be a good sign instead of the latter. You're thinking like a guy here, what you don't understand is that when a girl likes you, she does things to accommodate you. That last thing she would want is for you to be directing sexual energy toward another woman because she's not around to give you that attention you need. And thats probably how she sees it. Wanting to keep your sexual thoughts on her instead of another.

Drop the paranoia, it's not going to serve you at all. If she's doing something out of line, you'll know. She'll show it.

If the condition of the relationship was good before she traveled you have nothing to be worried about. Your are the best thing for her - At least thats how you should feel. It would be foolish for her to ever do anything to jeopardize that.
Author:  Cross De Lena [ Wed Jul 26, 2017 10:28 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: newbie question
Eddie, thanks for a reply.

You're absolutely right, I allowed myself "vacation time" and it's amazing how boredom can affect my thinking and mood :oops:
Author:  R.C [ Fri Jul 28, 2017 9:07 am ]
Post subject:  Re: newbie question
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Gf currently on vacation, recently she became very horny over text messages, any assumptions as to why is she acting that way?
My guess would be because she's horny.
Maybe it's the lifeguard at the pool. Maybe it's because she went to a strip club. Maybe it's because she misses you. Maybe it's because of some guy talking to her. Who knows.
Quote:
And should I endorse that behaviour or call her out on her unusual behaviour?
You've been here for a while. You should know by now what "calling out" does in this type of situation. You become the insecure boyfriend while the girl is away. At the most, all you should do is acknowledge it and let her know that you're going to take care of her when she gets back.
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