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Author:  Dahl [ Tue Jul 25, 2017 2:00 pm ]
Post subject:  Approaching at the gym? Want opinions!
Question: What are your thoughts on approaching girls at the gym?

Reason why i'm asking: I'm young (dont have a car yet) and from a small town, so my options for going out are limited, but i've noticed that alot of the hot girls from the area train at the same gym that i do. (Been training there for a while, so most of them have already noticed me, i even think some of them have given some IOI's). So it might not be a bad idea to talk to some.

Reasons for doubt: If i mess things up and it gets awkward, im almost guaranteed to see them again (small town, same gym, likely same school), and i might become the "weird guy" or some shit.
Also, how many different girls can you approcach at that exact gym? Is there a limit?

Reasons that i think its a good idea:
Girls who come there might care about bodies and being fit, and in that aspect im fairly well off(not the biggest or leanest there, but doing fine). And the girls there have a shared interested in fitness and health.

So, does ones "game" have to be on point before trying this?
And if approaching, how would you do it? Situationaly dependant?

Thanks for your time ;)
Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Tue Jul 25, 2017 2:17 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Approaching at the gym? Want opinions!
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Question: What are your thoughts on approaching girls at the gym?
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Author:  Dahl [ Tue Jul 25, 2017 2:32 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Approaching at the gym? Want opinions!
Sorry. Im new here, and havnt seen this question anywhere. I scrolled through the posts of this topic, and most of it was advertisement(or weird links, idk)
And since i was on my phone i couldnt go to the other pages lol, or have i missed something?
Author:  The_Professor [ Tue Jul 25, 2017 4:36 pm ]
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Sorry. Im new here, and havnt seen this question anywhere. I scrolled through the posts of this topic, and most of it was advertisement(or weird links, idk)
And since i was on my phone i couldnt go to the other pages lol, or have i missed something?
It is my opinion that if your intent is to meet women at the gym, then you should be approaching many people at the gym, not just attractive women. Ideally, you want to be the sociable guy that has many friends at the gym, which will make approaching attractive women more natural, successful, and less awkward.
Author:  Dahl [ Wed Jul 26, 2017 4:28 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Approaching at the gym? Want opinions!
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Sorry. Im new here, and havnt seen this question anywhere. I scrolled through the posts of this topic, and most of it was advertisement(or weird links, idk)
And since i was on my phone i couldnt go to the other pages lol, or have i missed something?
It is my opinion that if your intent is to meet women at the gym, then you should be approaching many people at the gym, not just attractive women. Ideally, you want to be the sociable guy that has many friends at the gym, which will make approaching attractive women more natural, successful, and less awkward.
That sounds like a good idea, thanks alot for your reply! :D
Author:  Eddie Fews [ Wed Jul 26, 2017 7:04 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Approaching at the gym? Want opinions!
There is nothing at all awkward about striking up a conversation with a person that it is your very same vicinity. It is not about what you do, it is all about HOW you do it. So as long as you're not snickering around, and grabbing girls asses while they're doing squats there is no reason for anything to get awkward.

You talk, you feel the vibe out, and if it seems progressive then you escalate to getting their phone number. If things feel stale, you just say " Good talking to you. I'm going to get back to my work out". No harm done. What are they going to say " OMG, you see that guy over there.. He said Hi to me. I can't believe it!". ??

We have to take the idea of talking to another human mentally as being something normal. It's a conversation. We've have mouths and voice boxes to communicate. Theres nothing awkward about it. But even if it was.. So what? What is it about that modern man that he's so afraid of feeling uncomfortable? All feelings will come and go, but at what point do we let our feelings, keep us from doing the things that have the potential to make us happy.
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