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| Author: | 101 [ Sat Apr 19, 2008 5:57 am ] |
| Post subject: | HOW CAN YOU ANSWER THIS QUESTION WITHOUT SOUNDING BORING |
hey all you PUA's, i would like to know how to answers this question " so what have you been up to?" i would usually answer with a "nothing much you?" witch is to boring and the converstion just dies out. any suggestions on how to spice up the converstion. thanks |
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| Author: | c_n12 [ Sat Apr 19, 2008 6:15 am ] |
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User cliffhangers to keep her curious and asking questions (like the season finale of your favorite show where you are left waiting three months wondering what happened) make sure you give away as little at a time as possible so she has something to be curious about and get involved with. Also fill whatever you say with emotion. Try like this... You: “I just got back to the States” Her: “Oh cool! Where did you go?” You: “I went to Italy it was beautiful – We went hiking on some of the most amazing golden brown mountains in the world. there was gorgeous fields and mountains and immaculate architecture that just swept me away like nothing has ever done in my life.” Her: “That sounds really amazing. What part did you go to?” You: “Venice, I got to do some really wild stuff” Her: “Cool! like what?” It's even more ideal if you can start on something, get a woman wrapped in it and then end a convo and leave her wondering (and thinking about you) With this you can make a conversation that would otherwise be boring (you ranting about your trip) into an engaging and interactive story which she feels like she Is having input on even if you’re really controlling the conversation. Another great advantage to this is that you leave her wondering (woman can’t walk away from curiousity like men can) and she will feel compelled to act upon that curiosity. Leave her guessing and jump topics without quite resolving any of them. If you can leave a woman with 20 unfinished stories she will keep coming back to hear how they end. |
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| Author: | xxIcexx [ Sat Apr 19, 2008 2:44 pm ] |
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First you stop typing in red color, then you make sure you do interesting stuff so you dont have to lie. But if you are busy like 85% of people out of high school, exaggerate something that you've done, even if it was a while ago. |
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| Author: | Chief [ Sun Apr 20, 2008 1:47 am ] |
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The same thing we do every night, Pinky... |
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