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| Author: | Rolski [ Tue Jun 20, 2017 10:41 am ] |
| Post subject: | A girl at my school called my out about game |
So I've been into game for about over a year now. I have seen extremely great success with it despite being at a young age (I am 17 now). Anyway, a girl at my school called me out it today. Since last year, I have gained more confidence at school and have been approaching more girls at school, talk about shit that I have going on outside of school, going to clubs, tinder dates, and I've been building this impression on all these girls that I am a Casanova and don't have time to mess around. A girl in my year level came up to me while I was studying in the library, and here's how the conversation went: Girl: "Hey Rolski" Me: "Hi, everything all good?" Girl: "Can I ask you something honestly?" Me: Yea, alright" Girl: "Are you involved in that PUA stuff? I have seen you gone from being a shy boy, to being an outgoing, extroverted guy." Me: "What?" Girl: "My older brother was into that RSD stuff and you have acted and transformed the exact same way he has" Me: "I don't even know what that is, to be honest" Girl: "Ok cool, nice talking to you' Did I react in the right way? I was kind of caught off guard to be completely honest cause I have never been called out on something like this. I didn't want to tell her I was into game because I didn't want to lose the aphrodisiac that I have built up until this point, by being becoming "That weird guy at my school who posts about picking up girls on the internet". What should(shouldn't) have done differently? Thanks. |
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| Author: | R.C [ Tue Jun 20, 2017 11:00 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: A girl at my school called my out about game |
Quote: "That weird guy at my school who posts about picking up girls on the internet".
If that's what you think this is, then that's what the people around you will think this is. People are prejudiced about "PUA", I'm well aware, but above that their reaction will be based on yours. If you react by saying "Yeah, I've been trying to work on that lately" then they'll think nothing of it, because you think nothing of it. If however you try to hide it, you only confirm that there is something indeed to hide. And if they do find out, then you've painted yourself as a weird guy all on your own by confirming their biases. |
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| Author: | DJ_Z [ Tue Jun 20, 2017 1:30 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: A girl at my school called my out about game |
First you're in high school so what these students think of you will be irrelevant very soon. Second she didn't seem to try to mock you or anything, so I don't think you should worry even about the present much. Finally, understand that people will always try to shame you for being better. You work out and get in better shape and someone will call you shallow. You read more and someone will call you a nerd. You get with more girls and someone will call you a player or perhaps ask if you're into that "weird pua stuff." It's inevitable. Most people do not want to see you rise up from your current spot. |
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| Author: | Eddie Fews [ Tue Jun 20, 2017 6:52 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: A girl at my school called my out about game |
You didn't have to tell her if you didn't want to, but you also didn't have to deny it. A simple "What's it to you?". She's going to think what she's going to think despite what you tell her. I personally would've just owned it. I was raised to own everything. If theres something I feel I have to hide, then I need to reevaluate the stuff that im into and make changes. If the creators of these movements hid behind the content and material they wouldn't be movements. Someone had to come out and wave the flag and say " This is me, this is what im into, and you can do it too", for people like you to have access to the content. Thats what leaders are made of. Hell, you could have your own lil group in highschool who are all into the same thing, you guys can be out with it, throw parties, and potentially create your own movement one day. But that won't happen as long as you're hiding behind it. I say own it, or tell her its none of her business. Whats she care for anyway? |
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| Author: | polio [ Thu Jun 22, 2017 6:40 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: A girl at my school called my out about game |
Say just is not her business |
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| Author: | neo87 [ Thu Jun 22, 2017 7:55 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: A girl at my school called my out about game |
Someone noticing you improved yourself and asking you if you did the same as her brother is not "calling you out" or this hostile thing you need to get defensive of. Jeez.. If someone asked you if you were doing p90x would you say none of your business or lie? She noticed a change and asked in a polite way. Her brother did it too. No big deal. Stop looking for attacks where there aren't any. If you're really charming these chicks and fucking them right(don't know if you are in high school).. Basically if you're an attractive guy they don't care if you made an effort to improve yourself. If you're running around doing palm reads and the cube to evry chick yeah theyd see you as more weird than they already saw you. |
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| Author: | Mr. Assertive [ Thu Jun 22, 2017 9:26 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: A girl at my school called my out about game |
Honestly, I would have responded by saying that I realized life is short...I just want to enjoy my time here. Would you like to join? e-z does it. |
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