It has been a while.
I would like to write something poetic about it, but in the end is that I’ve been fooled again: falling in love, banged others just to be sure, love confirmed, love died, deep alcohol-fueled depression that lasted months. One Tuesday morning I woke up and looked at my wretched self at the mirror: fighting shape gone, belly again, shitty look: I decided to get my shit together and start again.
But you aren’t here to read me whining, right? So, first of all, a couple of treats:
LAY REPORT #1: Saying “no” helped (lay-reports/saying-helped-vt204771.html)
LAY REPORT #2: Boardgame night (lay-reports/boardgame-night-vt204773.html)
Now, even if I’m still figuring out how to have a proper pick-up technique, I would also like some hints on how to actually keep a girl after you banged her, banged few chicks more just to be sure it’s not onetitis, and still want her - you know, when it will happen again. I don’t really know if create a thread in the General Questions or the Relationships one, I’m open to suggestions.
Anyway, back to pick-ups: one of my past friends-with-benefits, who I haven't seen in years, invited me to visit her in Ireland and crush at her place. She's somehow engaged to a Spanish surgeon but their relationship in sinking because of his multiple affairs. Maybe she wants to repay him with the same coin, maybe she just need a shoulder to cry on.
I care about her, but actually I don't give a shit about her relationship.
I just want to bang her, because she's hot as fuck and awesome in bed.
Any suggestions about this specific case? Thank you for your time!
Love to all,
K