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Author:  01010101 [ Thu Jun 08, 2017 5:45 pm ]
Post subject:  When you meet the perfect girl...

Hey there!

At university, i have a group project with 7 other people. One girl in this group is really really my type. Last time I saw a girl who was that much my type was back in January 2016.
Unfortunately I don't know so much about her because we just know each other from the group work, but as it seems she is also intelligent and has a nice caring character. I think we share the same values and have also some hobbies in common. Sometimes we talked without the other group members and we always had a topic to talk about.

One time after we said goodbye I saw how she turned back and looked at me. Usually I don't like to over-analyze such situations, but it's a little sign that she could like me. Probably she didn't think "Ummm let me make a 180° turn to look at this ugly fucker one more time"...

I would really like to get to know her better, but I don't know how to do it since we are in the same group project that will last till the end of August. I don't want to fuck up the group and make every meeting awkward.

Do you guys have any suggestions how to go on? I think I shouldn't go all-in right now because of our project. I would go all-in at the end of the project though, but obviously I don't want to wait so long.
Sadly the next project meeting is in two weeks and I don't see her in other classes :|

I hope that you guys have some good ideas because I have none :D and sorry for my English, I'm not a native speaker

Author:  DJ_Z [ Thu Jun 08, 2017 5:53 pm ]
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First, remember she ain't perfect. Second, talk to other girls while you make a play with her.

Author:  masterm1ne [ Thu Jun 08, 2017 6:04 pm ]
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Come on man. The only way you would get to do anything with her is to talk to her, and ask for her number and arrange a meet. Warm up to her, see if she's interested and then go for the #. It should be pretty obvious if she likes you.

Don't go in hot and heavy, that will make it awkward.

Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Thu Jun 08, 2017 7:02 pm ]
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One time after we said goodbye I saw how she turned back and looked at me.


OMG OMG OMG!
Quote:
Usually I don't like to over-analyze such situations, but it's a little sign that she could like me.
But you'll take anything you can get.

Author:  01010101 [ Thu Jun 08, 2017 7:06 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: When you meet the perfect girl...

I have her number since we have a SPAM group for our project. But I think it would be already "hot and heavy" to write her now in private chat, right?
Nevertheless I don't want to wait for the next meeting in two weeks...
She has her mobile number linked to Snapchat. Is it less awkward to just add her on Snapchat??

Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Thu Jun 08, 2017 7:08 pm ]
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Quote:
I have her number since we have a SPAM group for our project. But I think it would be already "hot and heavy" to write her now in private chat, right?
Nevertheless I don't want to wait for the next meeting in two weeks...
She has her mobile number linked to Snapchat. Is it less awkward to just add her on Snapchat??
Just fearlessly add her. Quit walking on eggshells with women.

Author:  01010101 [ Thu Jun 08, 2017 7:14 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: When you meet the perfect girl...

Yes you're right. It's my biggest problem when I like someone. And also really unattractive.
Sometimes I meet a girl from Tinder and everything was so easy from the very beginning. Why? Because I have absolutely no interest in her other than sex.

Author:  Mr. Assertive [ Thu Jun 08, 2017 11:20 pm ]
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Yes you're right. It's my biggest problem when I like someone. And also really unattractive.
Sometimes I meet a girl from Tinder and everything was so easy from the very beginning. Why? Because I have absolutely no interest in her other than sex.


Lol, you'll be saying "she is the perfect girl" about many girls in your life. I have been there where you been. Young and inexperienced. You'll learn...in the meantime, have your fun with this girl. No harm to see where it goes.

Author:  puaninja [ Fri Jun 09, 2017 12:38 am ]
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Such a bad frame and mindset from the beginning. Needy, timid, one-it is-ish. You need to be more aggressive and act like a man, not a boy.

What I would do is play off the group dynamic and use that angle to my advantage. I'd AMOG and belittle other members of the group to her, mainly to be funny. Make her feel like its really just you and her who are the competent ones in the group, and establish that commonality. Once she starts siding with you in your schoolwork, it will only be natural for her to want to be with you outside of school and be on your side.

Author:  R.C [ Fri Jun 09, 2017 10:51 am ]
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First you say she's really really really your type. 1 sentence later you say you don't really know her.

Stop fantasizing.

Author:  01010101 [ Fri Jun 09, 2017 4:24 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: When you meet the perfect girl...

Thanks for your advices. Yes I act needy af at the moment, but she probably didn't realize yet. I will change that. I am going to add her on Snapchat and see how things go on. But I won't put too much energy in it. I will try to AMOG other group members too. Since I took the role of the pushing guy in the group who wants to see (and is responsible for) good results, I should be in a good position for that.

Yes, this thread's title is a bit over the top, I know, but I thought it will increase attention to it :lol:
To the guy who said I contradict myself: No not really, I wanted to make clear that her appearance is exactly what I like, which doesn't mean it includes her character.

Author:  DJ_Z [ Fri Jun 09, 2017 4:42 pm ]
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Why not just ignore the guys, skip the social media and ask her out for a drink?

Author:  Dexter's Lab [ Fri Jun 09, 2017 6:34 pm ]
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Why would you Snapchat her ?

Add her on SPAM. Call her and ask her out.

And please don't say this bs that she is the perfect girl. It seems you haven't had much experience with women.

Once you experience enough, you will realize it.

I've been in similar situations in uni where i wished had taken a move. Regretting later is worse.

Author:  01010101 [ Fri Jun 09, 2017 7:00 pm ]
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Is there a chance to ask her out in SPAM without making every meeting awkward in case I fail?

Author:  Dexter's Lab [ Fri Jun 09, 2017 7:17 pm ]
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Chat her up in SPAM and ask her out.

Things won't get awkward you will make it awkward.

See you have already programmed your mind for failure. If you fail so what.

You ain't gonna lose a lottery if you fail.

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