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Author:  Isaiah [ Wed Jun 07, 2017 4:26 pm ]
Post subject:  Play it cool or be straight up?
I was reacquainted with a friend from high school while drinking at a mutual friend's house a week ago. I have her on Insta so a knew a few things about her. She models. Enough said. I played my cards perfectly that whole night. I didn't give her the attention she expected it worked really well. She tried a couple power moves on me which I quickly shut down. There was certainly some intimacy there but nothing overtly sexual (that would have got me in trouble with my friends in this situation). Got her Snapchat & #. Later, our mutual friend told me she said I'm cute.

So I took advantage of this. I waited a week to message her, mostly cause I was busy. So yesterday I took her out to grab food. We talked about work, school, old friends, fun stories. We're both into social psychology so we talked about that. I tried to make use of kino but I missed a lot of good opportunities for it. I tried to maintain that push-pull thing. I'd throw a subtle compliment or two her way. She responded neutrally to them. So I tried negging her.

"You blink a lot".
"OMG do I, like what do you mean?... Well you smile a lot."
"It's hard not to while I'm sitting next to a pretty girl."
"Don't make this weird, Isaiah."

I know I shouldn't have let it go in this direction but at some point the conversation moved on to relationships. She told me she doesn't play games, then a few seconds later she's talking about how she likes a challenge. A guy who's hard to get. I kept playing it cool but I couldn't help but wonder if I gave away too much. I thought at this point I should be making advances and making my desires known. She's obviously interested or she wouldn't have met me one-on-one. I'm clueless how to seduce her at this point.

At the end of the meeting she gave me a hug, said she had fun and she'd like to do this again. What should my next steps be? Should I ignore her for a bit to get her wondering if I'm attracted or not? She already sent me a snapchat this morning. Haven't looked at it yet. Hitting on an HB is so much easier at the bar....
Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Wed Jun 07, 2017 7:12 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Play it cool or be straight up?
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I kept playing it cool
By playing it cool did you mean frozen with fear?
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(that would have got me in trouble with my friends in this situation)
Then your friends suck.
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Got her Snapchat & #. Later, our mutual friend told me she said I'm cute. So I took advantage of this.
So she sent titties?
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So yesterday I took her out to grab food. We talked about work, school, old friends, fun stories. We're both into social psychology so we talked about that.
ZZZzzz
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I'd throw a subtle compliment or two her way. She responded neutrally to them. So I tried negging her.
Screw all that negging IOI crap. It's mostly worthless.
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Should I ignore her for a bit to get her wondering if I'm attracted or not?
?? Ignore her?
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if I'm attracted or not?
She's aware.
Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Wed Jun 07, 2017 7:16 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Play it cool or be straight up?
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She already sent me a snapchat this morning. Haven't looked at it yet.
If she's wearing any kind of shirt, tell her "To much shirt."
Author:  Isaiah [ Wed Jun 07, 2017 7:43 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Play it cool or be straight up?
Ok I see what you're getting at... Fuck.
Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Wed Jun 07, 2017 7:50 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Play it cool or be straight up?
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Ok I see what you're getting at... Fuck.

What should my next steps be?
Your next step would be logistically ending with you two alone together where you could preform lowerr abdominal exploration with your baby maker.
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