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| Author: | J.Daniels [ Sun Jun 04, 2017 10:10 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Movie dates are a bad idea... BUT... |
I just read a fact that watching a horror movie on a date, makes people more interested in eachother - heart racing replicates attraction or something. I'm not really one for movie dates because you don't really get to know the person... and there are other ways to get the heart racing... but maybe that's just me. I often get my paradigm challenged on things that I thought were as good as factual when I come to this forum... so, discuss?  maybe I'm missing out on something!
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| Author: | neo87 [ Sun Jun 04, 2017 11:11 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Movie dates are a bad idea... BUT... |
I feel like the cliche of the movie date comes from the fact that it's suitable for "regular" dating, but not "cold approach" dating. So traditionally, you know a girl in your social circle, you like her, she likes you, you invite her to go watch a movie and things go well. Do movie is not really to get to know each other; youve known each other for a while, its more just a formality before hooking up. Youve talked alot already. Something like drinks wouldnt be as good because you're further along. For cold approach however, you're starting from scratch so something where you can't talk reduces the "bonding" you can do. |
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| Author: | J.Daniels [ Mon Jun 05, 2017 12:45 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Movie dates are a bad idea... BUT... |
Quote: I feel like the cliche of the movie date comes from the fact that it's suitable for "regular" dating, but not "cold approach" dating. So traditionally, you know a girl in your social circle, you like her, she likes you, you invite her to go watch a movie and things go well. Do movie is not really to get to know each other; youve known each other for a while, its more just a formality before hooking up. Youve talked alot already. Something like drinks wouldnt be as good because you're further along. For cold approach however, you're starting from scratch so something where you can't talk reduces the "bonding" you can do.
I agree with this word for word tbh. For a cold approach date, I prefer to do something like a bowling alley; a lot of different activities available to make her feel like you've been on a few dates and know eachother better, and all reasonably cheap...
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| Author: | Mr. Assertive [ Thu Jun 08, 2017 1:57 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Movie dates are a bad idea... BUT... |
Movie dates are strictly reserved for boyfriend and girlfriends IMO. RARE do I take a woman I am dating. It has to be a woman I have been fucking regularly too. |
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| Author: | Dexter's Lab [ Fri Jun 09, 2017 5:53 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Movie dates are a bad idea... BUT... |
Mr. Assertive well said. Strictly do not take her to the movies. God there are some many things to do in life than to watch movies with a girl you barely know. Unless she's sleeping over at your place for Netflix and chill 
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| Author: | J.Daniels [ Fri Jun 09, 2017 7:06 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Movie dates are a bad idea... BUT... |
Agreed. I'd much rather take a girl to somewhere like the bowling alley on a first date; it has pool tables, an arcade, a little cafe and a bar - multiple dates in one night, which makes it easier to not only go the extra mile on the cheap and easy but also increases her comfort with you and gets her having fun and getting to know you faster. |
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| Author: | Eddie Fews [ Fri Jun 09, 2017 7:16 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Movie dates are a bad idea... BUT... |
Movie dates aren't so bad for new guys that struggle with keeping a conversation. The movie in itself provides something to talk about that both can relate on. So long as the movie is followed up with getting something cheap to eat. But then again, I live in New York City, so we can hit a movie, and walk up the street to go to solid whole in the wall good place to get a cheap bite so we can talk. It also gives a guy a good amount of time to let his nerves settle a bit. He can sit with the chick for 2 hours and be entertained by the movie, while he gets it together. But thats just for newbies. Intermediate guys and beyond, should avoid it if they can help it. Either way though, an activity should always follow after the movie. Don't just go out, sit in a movie, and then go home without saying much of a word. |
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| Author: | Cross De Lena [ Fri Jun 09, 2017 10:26 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Movie dates are a bad idea... BUT... |
I prefer movie dates at my own home. And I usually go for some brainless movie with Vin Diesel in it that doesn't have any story to follow. Btw., It's usually at 25-minute mark when I'm already taking her clothes off. If she accepts to watch a movie in your place - She knows what's up and will shave her legs and private parts for you just in case. |
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| Author: | R.C [ Tue Jun 13, 2017 11:09 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Movie dates are a bad idea... BUT... |
Quote: Movie dates aren't so bad for new guys that struggle with keeping a conversation.
I kinda disagree. That to me seems like training wheels. In my opinion learning to ride a bike is more effective without them. You may crash a few times but you'll acquire the skill much sooner. Anyway, yeah horror movies do all that, but what's the point? If you're on a date she's already attracted and interested to a degree. The idea is to build on top of that. Escalating, basically. You can't really talk in a cinema. Can't tease, can't touch, can't really flirt in any proper way. |
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| Author: | Arch Stanton [ Tue Jun 13, 2017 6:50 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Movie dates are a bad idea... BUT... |
Quote: I prefer movie dates at my own home. And I usually go for some brainless movie with Vin Diesel in it that doesn't have any story to follow. Btw., It's usually at 25-minute mark when I'm already taking her clothes off.
If she accepts to watch a movie in your place - She knows what's up and will shave her legs and private parts for you just in case. This. |
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