Thanks guys, makes sense.

Searched on google, and actually suprisingly, I found a lot of forums debate on this subject
Apparently, this is a thing.

So you are saying I should behave alot nicer maybe? Taking myself a bit more serious?

If you're better looking it makes it easier to be much more direct with your intentions.

I've noticed if you don't break frame and keep up and reflect the confidence your looks should have you should always be fine or at least thats how its been for me.

As far as the "player" comments, you have to understand that it is damn near every girls subconscious fantasy to get the guy who was once a player to be tamed, and settle down and focus on them. So they're always projecting this and believing this is the case about the guy they find attractive. Just as we as guy have this "purity" complex and are always believing the women we are interested in is more pure than she actually is. Because of this, men pretend they've been with more women than they actually have, and women pretend they've been with less men than they actually have. Its us both protecting what we feel the others subconscious desire is. Ask 10 women about their boyfriends and at least 6 of them will tell you that their boyfriend was a super player before they met him. He's likely projected this, and she's cast it on him as well because she wants to believe she got the man everyone desired, but no one could get to settle. So just understand that this is their projections, and they'd likely project it on you whether they were super into you or not. Not to mention, how much more satisfying to the ego is it to believe you rejected a "player" than it is that you rejected an average joe that everyone rejects? It makes the feel better. So for the most part disregard this.

This is so true. I see these trashy women on facebook making these posts "If you win him back after he cheated on you just to show the other girls you won, then you lose." At first I was like why would someone want everyone to know they are being cheated on? But think about how loaded that statement is with what is the equivalent of DHV for the woman. Not only is she with a guy who is desirable to multiple women, but SHE has the ability to keep the man for herself at the end of the day if she wants. Therefore SHE must be very desirable too.

It has nothing to do with calling the dude out for cheating, or even serving as moral support and advice to women in that situation. Those types of posts are simply a form of bragging to demonstrate preselection for the woman who posts it.

If you're good looking and come across as too charming and confident many girls will perceive you to be out of their league and then will stop trying to save their ego/pride from what they see as an "eventual rejection from him."

With these girls be a bit less cocky and work more on the emotional connection side of things.