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Author:  XXJUICEXX [ Thu May 25, 2017 4:42 pm ]
Post subject:  Guys Please some help someone help me!!!
Whats up yallll

first things first, i have been gaming for about 3 years now, since i first got to know about the game and all i have done and got some pretty impressive results and was able to sleep with more than 20 girls during that time. It has been such a journey for me!

Anyways at one point i got really bored from getting laid with girls that i just met, at first; sleeping with a girl you just met or you just recently got to know from cold approach at the mall felt really good and satisfying for both my needs to have sex, and my needs to see results.

So, i decided to launch a search for my new gf cause i wanted to have LOVE not SEX. So i went out there and i got me a fucking dime, she is the best gf i ever had, always spoils me, loyal as fuck, smart and funny, and fucks me like no tomorrow, we met at the mall by my house, and now we have been dating for over 10 months....


Now is the hard part to explain:

things between her and i got really serious and we have been talking marriage and shit, and how her father wants to see her married in max of 2 years (she'll be 22 and i'll be 25) because he is very sick and has cancer and basically about to pass away and wants to see his daughter married and shit..

So i am so not fucking ready for this shit, and i don't wanna get married and all.

Now i'm seeking from you players out there to give me a way or a plan on how can i break up with her... Please don't tell me just tell her we are going to break up.. She really really loves me and its going to break her heart but it has to be done i guess because i need to move on. I have been thinking she may fuck up and maybe catch her with a guy or some shit or talking to a guy or something and i would use that excuse, but this girl is so in love with me i am very sure she won't do anything like that or anything i don't like for ages.



SO PLEASE SOMEONE HELP ME!! HOW CAN I DO THIS?? :cry: :cry: :cry:



Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Thu May 25, 2017 5:11 pm ]
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Be honest and blunt. Tell her you're not ready. That's how Clint Eastwood does it.
Author:  DJ_Z [ Thu May 25, 2017 8:07 pm ]
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Don't get married. Her princess fantasy isn't your responsibility.
Author:  puaninja [ Fri May 26, 2017 2:43 am ]
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Procrastinate and hem and haw. Pretend that you will propose by a certain date in order to placate the dad, then start a fight or something so you guys are on the outs when that date comes. Then the timer will start over again and buy you more time.

Some girl's dad's bucket list does not dictate what you should do in your life. If they are going to put you in that bind, then you will have to use tactics to navigate around it without pissing them off too much, as its still in your best interest to be on their good side.
Author:  poeticlyskuac [ Fri May 26, 2017 3:42 am ]
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Procrastinate and hem and haw. Pretend that you will propose by a certain date in order to placate the dad, then start a fight or something so you guys are on the outs when that date comes. Then the timer will start over again and buy you more time.

Some girl's dad's bucket list does not dictate what you should do in your life. If they are going to put you in that bind, then you will have to use tactics to navigate around it without pissing them off too much, as its still in your best interest to be on their good side.
I disagree with the first paragraph but agree wholeheartedly with the second.

I would just be straight with her and her father.

"Hey I like you, feel you are amazing, but you're asking me to commit to marriage and I'm not ready. I get that your Dad is sick and wants to see his princess marry her prince and turn into a queen. However, I want to get married for me when I'm ready, that's not now.

I don't feel it's fair for you father to put this unneeded pressure on this relationship, if he feels he wants to see you married in the next 2 years that's fine, I'm just saying it's not going to be me. So in order for you fulfill his dreams, I'm ending this so you can find some guy you can marry before he moves on. I however won't be that guy."

Tell her it's not an ultimatum, it's just you can't be pushed into it. It's just not whats best for you if you're not ready.
Author:  neo87 [ Fri May 26, 2017 4:08 am ]
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Pick better women.

It seems like many guys here pick emotionally un-centered women, because frankly they need that validation type relationship and then it turns to shit because of that same thing that got her. Its a great feeling when a chick is ready for marriage 10 mths in...its an ego trip sure, but dont be surprised when that same chick isnt emotionally centered enough to realize that her father's wishes are unrealistic. When you date an emotionally centered woman, most of these simple issues dont come up because the chick is rational enough to understand marriage isnt something you do for your dad.

Likewise, be a man. An adult. All this hoping she cheats so you can have an excuse is childish. You dont want to be with her for a legit reason or incompatibility ..end it or address as an adult. Date emotionally centered women and be emotionally centered yourself. Solves 99% of the relationship issues on this forum.
Author:  nyceboi [ Fri May 26, 2017 4:49 am ]
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Be honest and blunt. Tell her you're not ready. That's how Clint Eastwood does it.
yes yes clint eastwood :evil:
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