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Author:  Big Joe [ Tue Apr 15, 2008 9:26 pm ]
Post subject:  Did I Come off as needy
This hb 7.5 and I had sex on saturday and last night, and thus far I have played Solid Game, the best i have ever played. I wanted to see her again, but really had no time in mind, She is a very scheduled/busy person but does not have high social status. anyway here is the text conversation did I come off as needy?
Me:you need to stop thinking about me and focus
Her: Ha ha you and your damn mind reading (she thinks i can read her mind because my horscope said so and i did very well on some esp tests)
Me:I was born with what women want
Her: ahh I see
Me: I almost got in a fight this morning. (thats bullshit)
Her:why?
me: This guy almost hit me with his bike and then he started talking crap, I told him I had tomato sauce running through my veins
Her:Ha ha nice
Me: it turns out that I have to work until 10 on Wednesday night, have you figured out your schedule yet
Her: I think I just have stuff going on all Wednesday night but don't worry we will hang out soon
Me:guys like me dont worry
her: well all right then

I am kinda a naturally needy person, since i have gotten in the game I have really put a damper on it. I have decided to freeze her out until at least Thursday night and then maybe drop some C&F lines, but i think she needs to make the next move. what do you guys think?
Author:  Maverick69 [ Tue Apr 15, 2008 9:39 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Did I Come off as needy
[quote="Clamenza"]
Me: it turns out that I have to work until 10 on Wednesday night, have you figured out your schedule yet
Her: I think I just have stuff going on all Wednesday night but don't worry we will hang out soon
Me:guys like me dont worry
her: well all right then quote]

Right here is where you went wrong. You ASKED HER if she found out her schedule. You should have told her somewhere along the lines of "hey a buddy of mine is havin a party saturday, come with me." You never want to put a girl in the situation of where she can simply give a yes or no answer. By saying come with me you're implying that you're already going to be doing something fun with or without her. And when you said "guys like me don't worry" you probably came of as too cocky which is why she give an answer like "wow ok". There is a fine line between confident and cocky.
Author:  Big Joe [ Tue Apr 15, 2008 9:43 pm ]
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I should have put more info in, we had already talked in person about doing something on Wednesday, but she wasn't quite sure if she had the time and she needed to check.
Author:  Icepick [ Wed Apr 16, 2008 4:16 pm ]
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It sounds like you were jumping around randomly with each text you sent her. Woman like unpredictable behavior, but they dont like too much unpredictable behavior. Plus, maverick69 isnt the only one that noticed you were being too cocky. I noticed it too. Being too cocky like that makes it look like your overcompensating for a lack of something. You would have been better off texting her "YOU: I cant stop thinking about how cute you are. :wink: HER: thank you, that was sweet of you. YOU: I gotta go, take care, Ive got a lot of things I need to work on.
Author:  Big Joe [ Wed Apr 16, 2008 7:04 pm ]
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well I decided to end all contact for a few days she is busy this weekend so i am not even gonna try to make plans, I am punishing her and by that I am punishing myself for being lame my game is my better than that, we have a mutual friend and she is meeting her on Friday so I will know by then how i stand with her and will make my move accordingly. I am okay with coming off as cocky thats better than being needy, so far in the relationship i think i can support my cockiness because i have really come off as a high value male, but i will turn it down a little.
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