I have been part of the Pua community since graduating High School in 2013 but all my game has been in picking up women in nightclubs and bars. I don't look for long term relationships I just go for one night stands so my game outside of the club is pretty limited.
I stopped clubbing and decided on trying for girls in my social circle, their friends, other girls I know and day game. Quick History : So I know this HB9 I grew up with In Phoenix Arizona we went to High School together and we were really close friends for all 4 years. I currently live in Queens She stays in Albany which is about a 3 hour drive. I am not emotionally invested in her but I want to game her when we were in High School she was one of my best friends we stopped talking after it she had a bf and when I seen her in Phoenix (randomly)in Summer 2014 and she was very awkward when she seen me and tried to avoid me (she was with her bf) I personally didn't care but I hadn't talked to her for a good year. Then last year she broke up with her bf I didn't even know about it and she had been single since . I seen her post something on Facebook about living in Newyork (State) I shared it and I think she realised I also lived in Newyork now, she then became active on my wall for a whole month liking and commenting on everything I posted I found it weird because she was never active on my wall ever. So I contacted her on FB and started talking to her she suggested taking a 3 hour car ride to come see me in Queens I said yeah that would be cool ill contact you when I'm free. After that she stopped being active on my feed again and I never cared about seeing her so I never did contacted her until a month ago when I wanted to start gaming girls out of clubs .I told her lets meet up soon she was super excited and wrote a paragraph and even wrote ''I can't wait i'm super excited'' I once again didn't feel like contacting her for another month and a few days ago I contacted her saying lets go out this week when are you free. She seen it and never replied its been almost a week I don't think i'm going to contact her again unless you guys think I should but I wanted to talk about text game and see where I went wrong.
The first time I contacted her I was using the afc message ''hey whats up'' nothing special and got a reply second time I used a old memory of ours the third time (this time) I said '' hey lets chill when are you free?'' and got no reply and yes she is single still (she posted about it in a askfm question a couple of days before I messaged her) and I know she hates New York and wants to move back to Arizona because she is lonely here. Should I try again and what should I say? or Just drop it all together ? and what did I do wrong that I need to fix?