About three months ago I met a girl over Facebook and we hit it off quickly, acted very interested....

fell off the face of the earth all of a sudden ignoring my messages, making excuses why she couldn't hang out. No contact from there on out.

Fast forward to two weeks ago, I get a random message from her apologizing for blowing me off (said she's sorry and will make it up to me), once again tons of texting, calling, FaceTimed (she's finishing college in another city), great conversation for two or three days after (she was constantly telling me she can't wait to see me and thinks we will hit it off well this summer), and even arranged a date beginning of next month as soon as she returns home.

For this past week, she hasn't reached out at all, and if she does she sends me one word texts and has acted very cold towards me and aloof like she did months ago.

I have no idea why you'd plan a date involving purchasing tickets for a chick from the Internet who is not even in your city for another month. If you can't see the chick for a month, that's the kind of situation where you lay back pursue more immediate options and keep her on the back burner. You chat now and then and when she's in the city you hit her up. Sorry but you were way too serious about an online chick and a meeting that was a month away.

On a side note... If a chick ever says she's gonna make something up to you use that to make your life easier. OK...when you get to the city you're cooking me dinner. If you had not treated texting long distance with a stranger so seriously...she probably would have fallen off and when she's back home in a month hit you up with "I'm sorry for being busy past weeks when came I come cook than dinner for you?"

This date will require tickets for me to purchase soon before it sells out which honestly makes this whole situation more complicated-not that I'm worried about money.. That was last week.

For this past week, she hasn't reached out at all, and if she does she sends me one word texts and has acted very cold towards me and aloof like she did months ago. If she does say something (rare) it's something about her day, but usually ignores anything I say back to her. She's showed zero interest in the past week towards me..Last night tried calling her for once-obviously she ignored it...I finally couldn't take it and basically sent her a text before bed (weak I know) saying I give up on this and I don't think it will work between us (I'm tired of girls playing games), and she called me back right away all defensive saying she's been busy with work all week and she works 12 hour days then goes right to bed, and that she doesn't play games, and she's confused where I'm getting that from then proceeded to say she's going to bed...she seemed very defensive and ticked off.