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| Author: | ikelove [ Mon Apr 14, 2008 2:18 am ] |
| Post subject: | DID I MESS UP, OR IS THIS JUST A BITCH SHIELD |
OK I FINALLY GOT THE NERVE TO TALK TO THIS GIRL IN MY COLLEGE CLASS. I WALKED UP TO HER, SET NEXT TO HER AND STARTED THE CONVERSATION. SHE SEEMED VERY NICE AS IF SHE ENJOYED TALKING TO ME. I WAS TOO DAMN NERVOUS TO ASK HER FOR HER NUMBER, SO I TOLD HER THAT I WAS GOING TO EMAIL HER INSTEAD. SHE SMILED AND SAID SURE SEND ME AN EMAIL, AND THEN I ENDED THE CONVERSATION. OK HERE HOW THE EMAILS WENT, AND THESE ARE THE SHORT VERSION OT THE EMAILS. ME: WELL I'M NOT REALLY THE TYPE OF PERSON TO WRITE LONG EMAILS, SO BASICALLY I JUST WANTED TO LET YOU KNOW THAT I FIND YOU TO BE A VERY INTERESTING PERSON MISS. HER:LOL, WHAT DO YOU MEAN I'M INTERESTING? ME: WELL I'D RATHER EXPLAIN THAT TO YOU FACE TO FACE, OR AT LEAST OVER THE PHONE. SO AM I GOING TO HAVE TO WAIT UNTIL NEXT WEEK TO TALK TO YOU. HER:WELL I'M GOING TO BE KINDA BUSY, AND I WONT BE AROUND A PHONE, SO I DONT KNOW. ME: OK, I'M A PATIENT MAN. AND THAT'S IT, SO WHERE DID I GO WRONG, AND WHAT SHOULD I DO FROM HERE. SHOULD I WRITE HER AGAIN, OR JUST WAIT UNTIL I GO BACK TO SCHOOL TO TALK TO HER. |
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| Author: | Killians [ Mon Apr 14, 2008 2:33 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: DID I MESS UP, OR IS THIS JUST A BITCH SHIELD |
Quote: HER:WELL I'M GOING TO BE KINDA BUSY, AND I WONT BE AROUND A PHONE, SO I DONT KNOW.
That right there should tell you that she is not interested. Nowadays, with cell phones who isnt around a phone? Move on dude. Also, your whole email game was awful. You should have just number closed, waited, and then called to set up a 1st date. Next time if you are going to email (although i would suggest calling) insert a few negs rather than "you are interesting". First of all that showed that you were waay into her especially after a brief convo. Secondly, its a boring response. |
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| Author: | theclaw [ Mon Apr 14, 2008 7:32 am ] |
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i agree, the problem about online sarging or communication is that it is too impersonal, u dont get the tone and sarcasm and attitude from her words, and its hard to neg and get her response, next time, if u are too nervous to # close, wait, u see her every week dont u? |
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| Author: | Tamora [ Mon Apr 14, 2008 2:14 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: DID I MESS UP, OR IS THIS JUST A BITCH SHIELD |
Quote: HER:WELL I'M GOING TO BE KINDA BUSY, AND I WONT BE AROUND A PHONE, SO I DONT KNOW.
This isn't a favourable response to recieve but I would consider it a shit-test at best.Quote: ME: OK, I'M A PATIENT MAN. |
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| Author: | ojsimon [ Mon Apr 14, 2008 3:04 pm ] |
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i don't know i'm quite new to this but i think you should have neged her in the email and definately not given her an ioi i think it was too early |
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| Author: | ikelove [ Tue Apr 22, 2008 4:21 am ] |
| Post subject: | interesting |
so she sent me another email, and i immediately negged her and the conversation has been going great now. it's really crazy |
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| Author: | wtfpwnage [ Tue Apr 22, 2008 8:53 am ] |
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hope you're recovering well. But you shoulda gone like "I find you an interesting person... well, perhaps a little strange/weird." or like "I find you an interesting person... well, maybe not THAT interesting" then gone like "You're gonna be busy? Hell, i bet you im 10x busier than you are. Consider yourself lucky, i normally charge a high fee for my emails." or sth like that, just mho. |
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