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Author:  spaghettimeatball [ Sat Mar 18, 2017 6:47 am ]
Post subject:  Should I ask her out?
Hi,

I would love to ask a girl out to play sports but she is not the sporty kind. Would it be a great idea to ask her out then?

I have read many issues guy faced such as the girl reading their texts of asking them out to only be ignored despite having read them. In the event this occurs, does this mean she is not interested in me or does it mean she is not interested in playing sports?

I know that asking a girl on a date is usually best done face to face if not via calls but I would like to give text a shot :)
Author:  R.C [ Sat Mar 18, 2017 7:45 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Should I ask her out?
How about you ask her out for a drink instead?
Author:  spaghettimeatball [ Sat Mar 18, 2017 7:55 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Should I ask her out?
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How about you ask her out for a drink instead?
Thank you for the response! I did consider that but something just didn't seem right... I could reconsider it though but how about sports in general? Supposed that she isn't the sporty kind, would it be ideal to ask her out to play sports?
Author:  R.C [ Sat Mar 18, 2017 8:08 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Should I ask her out?
Do you want a friend or a potential lover?
Author:  spaghettimeatball [ Sat Mar 18, 2017 8:11 am ]
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Do you want a friend or a potential lover?
The latter sounds great. Where would 'asking her out to play sports if she isn't a sporty person' lead me to? Would it decrease/increase the likelihood of her accepting/ignoring the date?
Author:  R.C [ Sat Mar 18, 2017 8:23 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Should I ask her out?
It will lead you to the friend zone, that's where. If you're interested in her act like it. Drinks.

Your sports thing is a means of playing it safe. And if you play it safe now you'll be playing with yourself later.
Author:  spaghettimeatball [ Sat Mar 18, 2017 9:20 am ]
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It will lead you to the friend zone, that's where. If you're interested in her act like it. Drinks.

Your sports thing is a means of playing it safe. And if you play it safe now you'll be playing with yourself later.
I see... so generally, it is best to not ask a girl out to do something that is not of her interest even if she happens to be interested in you?
Author:  R.C [ Sat Mar 18, 2017 9:41 am ]
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Isn't it obvious? Why would you invite her to do something you know she has no particular interest in?

But like I said, the point here is to convey your intentions. Drinks imply a sexual direction. Coffee, which is a terrible idea, implies a friendly direction. Don't convey a friendly direction if your intentions are sexual.
Author:  spaghettimeatball [ Sat Mar 18, 2017 10:36 am ]
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Isn't it obvious? Why would you invite her to do something you know she has no particular interest in?

But like I said, the point here is to convey your intentions. Drinks imply a sexual direction. Coffee, which is a terrible idea, implies a friendly direction. Don't convey a friendly direction if your intentions are sexual.
That is very informative! Sorry for being a noob in this field haha...
Author:  sadDog [ Mon Mar 20, 2017 1:19 am ]
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Isn't it obvious? Why would you invite her to do something you know she has no particular interest in?

But like I said, the point here is to convey your intentions. Drinks imply a sexual direction. Coffee, which is a terrible idea, implies a friendly direction. Don't convey a friendly direction if your intentions are sexual.
what if the girl dont drink?
Author:  neo87 [ Mon Mar 20, 2017 2:00 am ]
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coffee dates

play sports dates

whats next
Author:  R.C [ Mon Mar 20, 2017 4:51 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Should I ask her out?
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Isn't it obvious? Why would you invite her to do something you know she has no particular interest in?

But like I said, the point here is to convey your intentions. Drinks imply a sexual direction. Coffee, which is a terrible idea, implies a friendly direction. Don't convey a friendly direction if your intentions are sexual.
what if the girl dont drink?
Don't date her.
Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Mon Mar 20, 2017 5:54 pm ]
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OMG Hockeystick has a brother?
Author:  sadDog [ Mon Mar 20, 2017 9:17 pm ]
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Isn't it obvious? Why would you invite her to do something you know she has no particular interest in?

But like I said, the point here is to convey your intentions. Drinks imply a sexual direction. Coffee, which is a terrible idea, implies a friendly direction. Don't convey a friendly direction if your intentions are sexual.
what if the girl dont drink?
Don't date her.
but what if I dont drink and she dont drink? I am serious...hauahuahu, sometimes I dont drink for a few months. Believe or not, sports shit hahahahaha
Author:  Daygame Australia [ Tue Mar 21, 2017 12:58 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Should I ask her out?
You are overthinking something as simple as asking a girl out...

Imagine the procrastination when it comes to something actually important, like escalating or bouncing her home.

Think a bit less, take more action, and learn from the experience. That'll allow you better calibration the next time.

Regards,

Daygame Australia .Com
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