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| Author: | DGH2014 [ Sun Mar 12, 2017 9:53 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Flakey, how do I build interest without investing too much |
So a girl I've met about 4 times including an f close on the 2nd, didn't message much this last week, then asked me if I wanted to "come over later". My reply was after an hour... Me: I'm shopping but will be free after 6.30pm Her: Babe why you take so long to reply haha, I'm at my parents now Me: it was 50 mins... so not free later? She didn't reply. I sent a snapchat about something she gave me last time I was at hers (an attempt to show that I'm not pissed off etc) She opened it and still.. no reply. So... 1. Is she not that interested and just wanted to have some sort of plans? If so.. how do I fix that over text if she barely replies? 2. Do I send her a message at some point rearranging the date/meet up? 3. I'm a nice guy but maybe she thinks I'm.. too nice? How to combat this without being a dick to her? Thanks in advance for any replies and feedback, will try to reply when I can (time difference between here in the UK and the US is a bummer) |
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| Author: | Arch Stanton [ Sun Mar 12, 2017 11:29 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Flakey, how do I build interest without investing too mu |
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Her: Babe why you take so long to reply haha, I'm at my par
Translation: "I'm on my way to another guy's house."ents now Quote:
Me: it was 50 mins... so not free later?
I wonder why.She didn't reply. Quote:
I sent a snapchat about something she gave me last time I was at hers (an attempt to show that I'm not pissed off etc)
Consider that a double text or a "plz respond". A different social media app counts as stringing responses.She opened it and still.. no reply. Quote:
So...
1. Is she not that interested and just wanted to have some sort of plans? If so.. how do I fix that over text if she barely replies? If you were dominating her in bed and giving orgasms, she would reply right away and not be considering other men. You fix it by showing up better in person, not text. Quote:
3. I'm a nice guy but maybe she thinks I'm.. too nice? How to combat this without being a dick to her?
Wait for her to respond. When she does, arrange a meet and lead in the bedroom with passion. Game other women. |
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| Author: | xplosiv [ Mon Mar 13, 2017 12:30 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Flakey, how do I build interest without investing too mu |
Sounds like her one response was a playful way of saying she don't like you to take forever to reply and now she is going to make you wait. You can either choose to wait or move on, but stop messaging her. |
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| Author: | DGH2014 [ Mon Mar 13, 2017 8:52 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Flakey, how do I build interest without investing too mu |
She wasn't seeing another guy as she was still uploading snapchats of her parents dogs etc as well as viewing my story too (still annoying as hell though) So I definitely shouldnt try and arrange a meet up today? Just wait for her to text back? I need something to break the routine a little if we do meet up, been at hers a lot because she's been moving into a new place and it's probably got repetitive just me going around and us watching a movie etc whilst chatting. Not sure what I'd do to break that routine though, pick her up and take her to the bedroom instead? Haha |
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| Author: | R.C [ Mon Mar 13, 2017 8:56 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Flakey, how do I build interest without investing too mu |
You've been on 4 dates man, what are you talking about routine? Go bawling or whatever if you wanna include some activity but there's no routine to speak off at this stage. |
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| Author: | Mr. Assertive [ Mon Mar 13, 2017 4:00 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Flakey, how do I build interest without investing too mu |
You've been around her for a bit. You have to step up and be a man and lead. She doesn't want to do all the scheduling and stuff. If you lead she will follow. |
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| Author: | DGH2014 [ Mon Mar 13, 2017 6:30 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Flakey, how do I build interest without investing too mu |
Quote: You've been on 4 dates man, what are you talking about routine?
Arranged bowling last week and she cancelled because of her wisdom tooth pain/emergency dentist appt (legit, but could have re organsised)Go bawling or whatever if you wanna include some activity but there's no routine to speak off at this stage. Quote: You've been around her for a bit. You have to step up and be a man and lead. She doesn't want to do all the scheduling and stuff. If you lead she will follow.
How do I do this though? She hasn't replied to my last message, do I message her tonight? Thought the rule of thumb was to let her seek you out after a couple of days of not messaging her etc..
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| Author: | Arch Stanton [ Mon Mar 13, 2017 6:37 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Flakey, how do I build interest without investing too mu |
Wait for her to message you back. Date other girls in the meantime. Most women see this as foreplay early on...the more patient a man is, the more he conveys he's emotionally centered. This is hot for them because 95% of men are needy and blowing up their phone. |
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| Author: | DGH2014 [ Mon Mar 13, 2017 10:31 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Flakey, how do I build interest without investing too mu |
Quote: Wait for her to message you back. Date other girls in the meantime.
Do I date other girls and be honest about it or keep it quiet? This is something I've wondered for a long time.
Most women see this as foreplay early on...the more patient a man is, the more he conveys he's emotionally centered. This is hot for them because 95% of men are needy and blowing up their phone. |
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| Author: | Arch Stanton [ Tue Mar 14, 2017 12:02 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Flakey, how do I build interest without investing too mu |
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Do I date other girls and be honest about it or keep it quiet? This is something I've wondered for a long time.
Yeah. Do what you like. You don't owe anyone an explanation unless you're exclusive with a girl.
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| Author: | Mr. Assertive [ Tue Mar 14, 2017 2:08 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Flakey, how do I build interest without investing too mu |
Quote: Quote: Wait for her to message you back. Date other girls in the meantime.
Do I date other girls and be honest about it or keep it quiet? This is something I've wondered for a long time.Most women see this as foreplay early on...the more patient a man is, the more he conveys he's emotionally centered. This is hot for them because 95% of men are needy and blowing up their phone. Yeah this is the common mistake of the average/nice guy- you haven't promised anything to anyone so it's none of their business. |
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| Author: | DGH2014 [ Tue Mar 14, 2017 8:12 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Flakey, how do I build interest without investing too mu |
Quote: Wait for her to message you back. Date other girls in the meantime.
Sounds good, when do you guys message her instead? Never? Or is it only when you're both on a neutral grounding of such/ after a certain number of days?Most women see this as foreplay early on...the more patient a man is, the more he conveys he's emotionally centered. This is hot for them because 95% of men are needy and blowing up their phone. I'm onto the dating other girls part now but they all seem like a huge effort compared to her (in terms of actually meeting, she has her own place, not too far away, its just.. easier than the rest) Thanks for all of you guys' input. |
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