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Author:  Z [ Sat Apr 12, 2008 11:08 am ]
Post subject:  question about my car

Ok, so first off, i know what kind of car you drive and what kind of clothes you wear, etc. isint supposed to matter in the game. After all, its supposed to be all about your game and how good it is.

However, I drive I high-end Mercedes (people are often surprised cause im 19). Everwere I go, people are always complemeting the car. And guys are always saying stuff like "dude, You must get hella girls with that car" or "Dude, if I had your car I would be getting hella girls".

I have NEVER gotten a girl because of the car. Usually the girls dont even know I have that car untill they are getting into it (and the car doesnt really matter anymore at that point).

Basically, I feel like I have a weapon available (the car), and I just dont know how to use it to my advantage.

So if anyone has any ideas, advise, opinions, etc. I would really like to hear em'. Thanks.

-Zeus

Author:  sweetw1982 [ Sun Apr 13, 2008 10:58 pm ]
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Really, the only thing I can think of off the top of my head is to bring it up in a DHV convo. Its AFCville to drive around in it and tell chicks to get in or just yell to them from the sidewalk. Me personally, I have a 4x4 pickup truck, depending on what I'm in the mood for (prissy, HB10, party, college, roughneck) it can often help. Car wash on a nice day, chicks love cleaning their car. fishing off the back of the truck in a popular park (use the truck as peacocking, no effort required), even while tailgating. But, your car is a bit upscale for any of those activities. Its the kind of car people tell DHV stories about. if they dont believe you, have them accompany your to check out the car and while your out there, turn it into a seduction point.

Author:  Killians [ Mon Apr 14, 2008 2:35 am ]
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Unless you are looking to attract gold diggers I wouldnt use that as a prop.

Author:  Rye Lee [ Mon Apr 14, 2008 3:24 am ]
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Don't rely on your car, that is gonna attract gold diggers. I wouldn't mention it unless someone asks you what kind of car you drive and otherwise you just call it your car.

Having good game is the idea and using your car as a crutch is going to hurt you in the long run, as well as making other guys think you're a douche for using it to get women. When you get a girl into your car and she sees it though, it's gonna be a nice surprise and throw her off balance because of your age, as you mentioned, so then you have an advantage at that point, without looking like a douchebag.

Author:  trackjunkie [ Mon Apr 14, 2008 6:33 am ]
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before i turned my car into a race car. (bmw m3) girls would say all the time where ever i went.

her "omg your car is so nice"
me "you should see the back seat"
her "oh really?!"
me "no im just kidding you're not my type"
and I'd get responses anywhere from
"okay fuck you asshole"
"oh really what's your type"
"i bet im your type"

Author:  PhoenixDown [ Mon Apr 14, 2008 7:38 am ]
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ha, late post. like they said, it'll only attract them gold diggers, but it shows that u aint a bumm either - which is a really good thing. just be modest about it. if they said 'wow nice car', just be like thanks! i knew people who tired using their toys as tools to pick up girls but none of them really worked.

Author:  Difference [ Mon Apr 14, 2008 8:24 am ]
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You'll look like an absolute wank trying to pick girls up by saying you have a nice car. As long as you have 4 wheels, and it gets from A to B, girls really don't give a shit what you drive.

Author:  Teaspoon [ Mon Apr 14, 2008 10:03 am ]
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just another post of agreeing with the above,

I'm 21 live on my own in my own flat (so many are shocked when they realise its mortgaged not rented) and have 2 MR2 turbo's... all in all sounds pretty sweet, but i've had a few instances of whilst sarging my friends jumping in telling people this and has only ever ended in it messing up my game.

In short, best left out of conversation to be honest :)

Author:  Z [ Mon Apr 14, 2008 10:40 am ]
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thanks for everyones opinions. Some of them were actually helpful.

and a couple of you, i think you didnt really understand what i was asking. maybe I just stated it wrong.

Im not trying to pick up girls with the car. It would be pointless of me to try to learn all of the PU stuff, if I was just gonna try to go around getting girls with material shit.

I just wanted to see if there was any way I could use my car to help out my game without just telling people some stupid line like "you should see what I drive"(I actually hate it when people try to flaunt shit to other people. It just annoyes me) or without just standing by the car like some AFC ( pople actually do that in this one shopping center by were I live on saturday nights. They look like idiots)

If there isint anyway to incorporate my car into my game, then im not gonna try to force it. But if there is and someone has an idea on how to do it, then I would like to hear it.

-Zeus

Author:  Wild_one [ Mon Apr 14, 2008 11:05 am ]
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Read this, forget the car:

http://www.attractwomen.com.au/best_top ... ethod.html

Author:  Clancey [ Mon Apr 14, 2008 11:06 am ]
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I know what you're getting at, but I don't see any way to mention what car you drive in a DHV story without it coming off as bragging. If you tell any story in relation to your car, there's still never really a reason to say what car you drive.

If you said something like, "so my friends and I were heading into town in my Merc" it just sounds conceited.

The only possible thing I could think of it to come up with some way to mention your car that would make her want to ask, like "I was struggling to find a sound system to fit my car because it has a weird shaped boot." She might then ask what it is. To be honest with you though I wouldn't even bother, I'd just be happy that she will be impressed if your game is good enough to get her into the car at some point down the line.

Author:  Autum2Ashes [ Mon Apr 14, 2008 2:51 pm ]
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im guna have 2 agree with the other guys, unless ur trying 2 attrct or dont mind attracting gold diggers, dont bring up the car. let it b a surprise after shes alreday into u

Author:  96Firebird [ Mon Apr 14, 2008 3:39 pm ]
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I've been wondering the same thing for a while now. And since my Firebird is coming back out for the summer, its the best time to know. I usually just drive it like its nothing special... because it isn't. Although it is fun to drive with the T-tops off and bass bumping, that is for my own satisfaction and couldn't care less what the people around me thought. Beware, some girls like bass, some don't. If they do, tell them to plug their ears and turn that shit up. If you have a decent system that is, if not, then keep it low...

Author:  Drifter99 [ Mon Apr 14, 2008 5:08 pm ]
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I agree generally with what was said above. Defin don't try to mention/brag (by the looks, you don't do that anyway) because girls HATE that.. I think the best advice is not to mention it at all (because even by mentioning it in a DHV story it may still come across as bragging), but if you do tell a story and she asks you specifically what kind of car you have, don't be shy to tell her in a humble non-conceited way.

As someone mentioned above, I think you're almost better hoping that the first time she hears anything about your car is when she's getting into it, then she will be caught off guard, and if she knows anything about cars, will know that its an expensive ride, etc.. blahah and it will be a BIG DHV on your part as woman are defin turned on by a guy that has his finances in control, etc.

Sounds as though you are too young to have bought it on your own, so make sure you don't come off as being spoiled or whatever. Say something along the lines, that you made a deal with your pops that if you got straight A's when you graduated high school, the car was your reward. (another DHV, you're an intelligent guy too)

Author:  Chino Kapone [ Mon Apr 14, 2008 5:18 pm ]
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The best way to DHV with your killer car is....... not mention it. That will DHV. It shows confidence when you don't' mention it. When you go to open the door for the girl, she will say "wow nice car!" you say...... "thank you."

Doing this will show your confident and dont have to rely on your material possesions to attract a woman. If thats what you have to do, you will be attracting the wrong type of women.

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