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Author:  thequietlife [ Thu Mar 09, 2017 6:55 pm ]
Post subject:  Has this ever happened to you ?(sex related)
Girl i knows been showing high investment, texting,snapping phoning quite more than I'm used to. ( however not to a stalker level) So i thought, I'm just after the lay why not take the opportunity.

She came to my house twice, the first time i kept it cool, i could see i didn't have the rush it as i her interest was so high and would be easy to get her back again. She came back to mine for the second time. I could see she wanted to kiss me, so i moved in. I escalated to some "fondling". But when i started playing with her nipples she remove my hands.

After each time she stopped me trying to escalate,i chilled the fuck out and just kept my hands to myself until she started kissing me again. She eventually got around to sucking her nipples etc bla bla

I could see she wasn't going to fuck and i was cool with that, i wasn't go to keep trying, she wouldn't let me slip a finger or nothing.

But after that day she's just completely went cold, everything stopped, texts,snapchats calls etc WTF ????
Author:  R.C [ Thu Mar 09, 2017 7:05 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Has this ever happened to you ?(sex related)
Quote:
Girl i knows been showing high investment, texting,snapping phoning quite more than I'm used to. ( however not to a stalker level) So i thought, I'm just after the lay why not take the opportunity.

She came to my house twice, the first time i kept it cool, i could see i didn't have the rush it as i her interest was so high and would be easy to get her back again. She came back to mine for the second time. I could see she wanted to kiss me, so i moved in. I escalated to some "fondling". But when i started playing with her nipples she remove my hands.

After each time she stopped me trying to escalate,i chilled the fuck out and just kept my hands to myself until she started kissing me again. She eventually got around to sucking her nipples etc bla bla

I could see she wasn't going to fuck and i was cool with that, i wasn't go to keep trying, she wouldn't let me slip a finger or nothing.

But after that day she's just completely went cold, everything stopped, texts,snapchats calls etc WTF ????
Buyers remorse.

Just because a woman wants you to fuck her doesn't mean she's not concerned about being seen as a slut. You expected her to start sucking your dick with a clear conscience as if you've been dating for months?

She was most certainly going to fuck if you had turned her on. That's what she was looking for. An excuse. A "one thing led to another". A "in the moment" experience.

All she wanted was a pretext. You didn't capitalize on that so ofcourse now she's gone cold. Aside from buyers remorse she probably wonders why you didn't want her badly enough.

Either way when faced with situations like this, either go all in or postpone. Never half ass it.
Author:  JackZero [ Thu Mar 09, 2017 7:22 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Has this ever happened to you ?(sex related)
+1 to what R.C said.

OP, how long have you known this girl?
Author:  Khatib_Imron [ Thu Mar 09, 2017 7:45 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Has this ever happened to you ?(sex related)
The problem maybe both of you don't know each other for long.
Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Thu Mar 09, 2017 7:48 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Has this ever happened to you ?(sex related)
You turned her down twice. Who can blame her for ghosting.
Author:  xplosiv [ Fri Mar 10, 2017 2:06 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Has this ever happened to you ?(sex related)
Sounds like she lost interest because you didn't seem invested. If a woman things you are playing a game, she'll play it right back.
Author:  Calum Tingham [ Mon Mar 13, 2017 8:14 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Has this ever happened to you ?(sex related)
I agree with the previous poster.

You failed to turn her on and give her the "one thing led to another" story.

Of course she was ready to have sex! But you didn't manage to escalate right. You just went straight in for the kill. You've got to tease her, kiss her neck, kiss her ears, get her hot and wet and then you'd have the green light.

Who knows why she got buyer's remorse. I'm not a mind-reader.

Perhaps she realized you didn't know what you were doing.
Perhaps she felt guilty for what she let you do.
Perhaps she was upset that you turned her down.
Perhaps her Grandma died.

Let's not dwell on that. Let's dwell on the fact that she was in the bedroom with you. And didn't go the full distance. Meaning she just didn't feel that aroused.
Author:  Mr. Assertive [ Mon Mar 13, 2017 4:03 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Has this ever happened to you ?(sex related)
As the trend is now, I'm going to use what these girls calls guys like the OP.


Erm, fuck boy?


Next time...captilize on her the first time. The fact that you thought you can have her whenever is what did you in. Stop stroking your ego and focus on giving her a great time. Now you're gonna be stroking your dick.
Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Mon Mar 13, 2017 4:54 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Has this ever happened to you ?(sex related)
Quote:
Stop stroking your ego and focus on giving her a great time. Now you're gonna be stroking your dick.
Well said.
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