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| Author: | Actor8 [ Thu Mar 09, 2017 6:11 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Good looking guy needs to know how to open |
Hi there, Just a quick question. I am a good looking guy (have been told so by many people) but I rarely if ever open girls in public simply because I don't know what to say. Recently I opened a girl because I genuinely needed directions to get somewhere and needed information. She seemed excited to chat but wasn't really my type. When approaching girls that are 7-10s how do you think I should open? Personally, I don't think a direct opener would work for me but am open to any suggestions. Thanks for any info, Actor8 P.S. I may also add that if only were I to get out of my head and have the balls to approach, I could probably get numbers and dates nearly every day. I am just one of those people that are very internal and think a lot. |
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| Author: | R.C [ Thu Mar 09, 2017 7:09 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Good looking guy needs to know how to open |
How is a direct opener not going to work for a good looking guy? Tell her she looks cute and you wanna know her name. Of-course it's not gonna feel comfortable at first, but that's how you expand said comfort zone. Tiptoeing around the pool will only postpone the process and delay results. |
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| Author: | Khatib_Imron [ Thu Mar 09, 2017 7:30 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Good looking guy needs to know how to open |
If you're a good looking guy, no need to worry. Quote: Tell her she looks cute and you wanna know her name
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| Author: | xplosiv [ Fri Mar 10, 2017 2:07 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Good looking guy needs to know how to open |
You just approach her. You don't need a game plan. If she is single and interested, you will know. Why waste time from across the room waiting or second guessing? |
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| Author: | Mr. Assertive [ Fri Mar 10, 2017 10:20 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Good looking guy needs to know how to open |
Same here. I am kinda cute to cute according to girls. I am hot when I dress like it. Just be smiling and approachable. Girls are more intimidated by you. She is going to need your guidance, calmness, and you need to just lead the conversation. Have a goal in mind before you talk to her though, since you might end up just talking too much and this is where good looking guy game goes wrong. Spark attraction, close (kiss, number, etc.) and follow up. This is where you have to keep the iron hot if she was into you or else you were that hot guy she met but guess you didn't really want her after all. |
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| Author: | Arch Stanton [ Fri Mar 10, 2017 11:37 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Good looking guy needs to know how to open |
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When approaching girls that are 7-10s how do you think I should open? Personally, I don't think a direct opener would work for me but am open to any suggestions.
"Hey, cool socks. What's your name?"
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| Author: | pumpington [ Sat Mar 11, 2017 3:39 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Good looking guy needs to know how to open |
You are in the toughest phase of trying to develop a game, that uncomfortable beginning where you are not sure of what to do. You should just go do what ever you can until you don't feel this way. Develop a plan and attempt to execute that plan until that uncertainty ceases to exist. I can list some things that can help you, but you should keep in mind that when beginning you should just think of what you want to communicate to a girl and how you would do that without tactic, just purely communicate your intentions to her. The more you try to memorize the more likely you will blank out when you finally do approach, get nervous because of the pressure and suddenly you will know nothing, remember nothing and manage to say nothing. Don't fall into that trap, just keep it as simple and pure as you can. You can start with hi, go from there, see if she says hi back, try to read her, is she hesitant, is she uncomfortable, is she comfortable, is she happy, is she sad, is she upbeat, is she skeptical, etc. etc. You can tell her why you came to talk to her (be honest), you can tell her you are not going to take too much of her time, you can introduce yourself, exchange names, try to rhyme her name with another word so you can remember it, if you are really nervous and cat has your tongue you should tell her that so it explains and justifies your body language some regular shit tests you'll get on trying to approach would be do you do this a lot? -no, but I had to do this for you how many girls have you said that to so far? -just you, and I'd do it again are you drunk? -no, I'm just nervous but had to talk to you you can start by sharing logistics before you start a conversation, so for example, I live close by in XYZ place, are you from (insert your city here), you can make positive observations about her that assume positive things (is she a dancer, is she an actress, is she a buisness woman, is she spanish, is she irish, is she viet, is she a brazilian etc. etc.) you can ask her about her schedule before asking for information about logistics, give information about your own logistics to make her feel more comfortable about it, if she challenges you on why you want the information let her know that you plan to invite her out for a date and are trying to figure out how to plan it you can continue and try to find out 5-10 things about her, things unrelated to her appearance, when you find anything that you mutually have interests in let her know you like that about her, after you have a general understanding of who she is on a very base level you should tell her you've decided that you'd like to get to know her better and want to take her out, repeat why, she's XYZ, she's pretty, she's YYZ ex. well, you're friendly, you're cute, you work for a huge company so you're probably really smart and you like animals, you gotta let me take you out for a drink tonight if that works for you, I want to see you again but I have to go then continue and either get your excuse or rejection or plan your date and grab her number to make it happen, continue this as long as you can push yourself until you have a few dates lined up do your best to stay as calm as you can, answer honestly, attempt to be the one making the plans, driving the conversation topics and giving your input in a proactive way, you don't have to accomplish or achieve anything just keep in mind what your goal is and think of finding someone who suits your goal as a scavenger hunt if you can stay relaxed and have an idea in your head that you want to see realized and are comfortable with shooting for that idea, your body language will reflect that, a calm guy with a charming smile and ease says a lot more about him then a sweating nervous wreck with shaky hands, it's just easier to trust a guy who seems sure of what he is saying while giving off a friendly, calm warm vibe the object of a good opener, is to open a conversation, if one begins, your opener was a success |
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