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Author:  Coldboy [ Thu Mar 09, 2017 5:52 pm ]
Post subject:  Thoughts on going to a bar alone?
Recently single. All my friends only like to go out like once every other weekend.
Wingman moved away.

So I've been going to this bar two nights in a row. Im not really sure how I feel about it.
Like, its great to go out without the added stress of "let's go to the next club", finding a table etc etc.

So I was sitting at the bar, feeling like a wallflower (should probably work the room more) but still approached 2 sets (1 pr night) and stayed with the set the entire night. No closes but we all did have a really good time.

In the eyes of the women, is too much DLV for any closes to happen? Both sets asked where my friends were, said they went home 10 minutes ago, i was just grabbing one last drink. Seemed acceptable to them.

I know I have some things to re-learn, but was just really wondering about the whole alone thing.
Author:  R.C [ Thu Mar 09, 2017 7:11 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Thoughts on going to a bar alone?
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In the eyes of the women, is too much DLV for any closes to happen? Both sets asked where my friends were, said they went home 10 minutes ago, i was just grabbing one last drink. Seemed acceptable to them.
Stop worrying about "DLV" and other similar bullshit.

It's only awkward if you make it awkward.
Author:  xplosiv [ Fri Mar 10, 2017 2:09 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Thoughts on going to a bar alone?
Instead of looking at yourself like an outcast sitting in the bar by yourself, look at yourself as a hunter. If you have it in your mind that you are strong and mysterious while being alone, women will pick up on you and be interested.
Author:  Coldboy [ Fri Mar 10, 2017 4:17 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Thoughts on going to a bar alone?
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In the eyes of the women, is too much DLV for any closes to happen? Both sets asked where my friends were, said they went home 10 minutes ago, i was just grabbing one last drink. Seemed acceptable to them.
Stop worrying about "DLV" and other similar bullshit.

It's only awkward if you make it awkward.
Alright, calm down dude. Thx for the tip.
Author:  Coldboy [ Fri Mar 10, 2017 4:18 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Thoughts on going to a bar alone?
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Instead of looking at yourself like an outcast sitting in the bar by yourself, look at yourself as a hunter. If you have it in your mind that you are strong and mysterious while being alone, women will pick up on you and be interested.

True, good mindset to have. Just didnt wanna come off as I was scoping the place out. But I will try it next time :)
Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Fri Mar 10, 2017 6:49 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Thoughts on going to a bar alone?
Tip well and become well acquainted with the staff. Own your space at the bar. Well greased bartenders are excellent wings. x2 for the females.
Author:  Mr. Assertive [ Fri Mar 10, 2017 7:41 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Thoughts on going to a bar alone?
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Tip well and become well acquainted with the staff. Own your space at the bar. Well greased bartenders are excellent wings. x2 for the females.

This. You can game the bar before people arrive...that's already another plus. You'll be more at ease
Author:  Calum Tingham [ Mon Mar 13, 2017 8:05 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Thoughts on going to a bar alone?
Personally, I love going out alone.

You don't have other guys moods to handle. Like—
"Hey man, I'm bored here, wanna get food."
"This music really sucks."
"None of the girls here are hot."

Blah blah blah. You're responsible for picking up their doubts and re-framing their minds. Which is an added task when you just want to socialize.

There's no compromises in where you're going, and no time outs you have to take to be a good wing.

Plus, if you travel to different cities, you need to get in the habit of going out alone. As a traveler, you'll be required to go to different bars and find new places. Imagine being in Madrid for a weekend by yourself, and not having anyone to go out with. You've got to hunt your locations by yourself. No choice.

Actually, women think it's brave that you would go out alone because most of them don't have the courage to do the same. They will respect you for being courageous and unafraid. It's a DHV.

If you get questioned on it, "are you here alone?"
Or, "Where are your friends?"

You can say, "They're all in being soppy with their girlfriends."
Or another alternative, "My friends are all busy with work, lame. I'm rocking solo."
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