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| Author: | dawg87 [ Sat Apr 12, 2008 1:18 am ] |
| Post subject: | Really need some advice.... |
Ok so this is the scenario. I like this chick, shes HB9/10, 18 yrs, she models occassionaly, is very social, outgoing, luvs partyin, dancing. This is the downside: we have met a few times but they hav always been me inviting her to parties with me, hence we never get alone time because im either busy dj'ing or shes with her friends. She knows i like her but i havent actually told her formally/directly. The worst mistake i did was i confessed my feelings over email. i know sounds fuking stupid but at this stage i was still the old me, shy, fearing rejection, approach bla bla, i just dunnno how to conversate properly and this is wat we both r lacking currently a proper conversation, one on one time. So 3 weeks after the email, she still hasnt replied or talkd bout it. But 2day i find out thru a friend that she does like me and would like to go out with me, but shes confused as she thinks im over protective (i guess from reading the email as she HAS read it and talked about it with her friend who told me all this). Now that i hav overcome anxiety, fear and all that im willing to properly hit the reset button and hav a fresh start, try to spend more individual time with her and take it from there. So wat im planing 2 do is ask her outt as soon as im dun exams to just go hav dinner or sumthin just so i can c her n catch up cuz i havent talked 2 her in 2 weeks. Wat do u guys suggest? am i still doin sumthing wrong? or not doin sumthing? n e feedback would b great. |
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| Author: | Kaveriis "SITH" [ Sat Apr 12, 2008 1:39 am ] |
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If what the friend said is true, then you've already past the attraction stage. She likes you, you like her. Cool. Now you have to build comfort. Tell her(not ask) that your going out soon. She'll say yes (if the friend was telling the truth). Talk on the phone or through email or whatever before you set a time and place. Use the push/push method. Get verbal (or written) ioi's from her. Continue to RAISE YOUR VALUE!!! Once you are together and alone, continue to DHV, escalate kino and ground her with stories and routines. Act as though you've guys have been seeing each other for a while. Be natural about it and have a good time. IOI her so you don't get stuck in the friends zone and just take it from there. Hope that helps a bit. |
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| Author: | dawg87 [ Tue Apr 15, 2008 12:01 am ] |
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thnx for the helpppp...i'll giv it a shottt although during out last conv i foud out that she has a possibility of movingg to a dif province so lets c... i guess i gotta get my game fasttt |
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| Author: | Kaveriis "SITH" [ Tue Apr 15, 2008 12:24 am ] |
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Sorry. Meant to say "push/pull", not "push/push". |
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