I met this girl on holiday a few months ago. She was totally up for a f-close, but I was too drunk to get to the beach. HB8. I'm thinking I should go down and see her at some point (lives 1 hour away) and close the deal but she's noticing a change in me since I started using this kind of mentality. I don't think I would've managed to close without the mentality as I fell in the trap of being a nice guy far too much which made logical sense, I was the 'nice guy' generally, but she still wanted to meet me again. Here's some highlights of our MSN conversations and her reactions:
At first I teased her about her age and how young she was, I told her she was in my wrong MSN category (You group people on your MSN list, you can edit and create the names for groups) and how it'll be illegal. I said it like 'Oh my god, I didn't know you was that young, you're in the wrong category' ect. She kept asking me what category she was in (I could tell it was driving her crazy not knowing, so she asked "oii.. plz tel me wt catagory i was inn xx" about 5 times) but I didn't give in. I said stuff like I'll tell you when you're older, it's for your own good, I'm protecting you and you'll thank me when you're older ect...
You have started viewing webcam with HB8.
HB8: i cant wait til march
Me: oo nice top
HB8: cheers
Me: amazing what u can get in charity shops these days aint it?
HB8: oooooohhhh!!!
HB8: cheeaaap
Me: ok so if i tell u... what u gunna do for me?
HB8: ur cheap shots
HB8: wel i dnah if i care enymre, u bein as nasty as u r
Me: wow ur nose wiggles when u get serious
I decided to stop viewing the cam, I never like relying on it too much and she was telling me she doesn't care... it was also punishment, I was the one who stopped
You have stopped viewing webcam with HB8.
HB8: :O
HB8: ur so outr
HB8: wt happened 2 yuu, u were wel nyc now u jus tease me, n not in the kinky way
Then she told me her birthday was on the XX of March:
HB8: 23rd
HB8: y?
Me: cuz i might be down there sometime around march
HB8: gd
HB8: then u can make it up 2 me
Me: so ill need to make sure i avoid u ;]
HB8: u r so out, i dnt lyk the new VitalEyes, i prefered the one on hols
HB8: y r u bein mean ?
I then didn't have any decent answer (I can't exactly say I'm adopting a new pick up mentality, can I now?) so I fobbed her off with an obvious excuse, but I always leave my computer on, she comes at me with:
HB8: fyn then fuk off, of u can onli fink of sum shitty excuse lyk that then u obviousli dnt wana tlk 2 me so piff of n b nasty 2 sum1 else, wtf happned 2 yuu . wteva it is i dnt lyk it!
[LONG GAP, she must've thought about what she said?]
HB8: i wnt the old VitalEyes
Have I broken a rule here by speaking to a girl I knew before I started the PUA stuff? I haven't spoken to her for about 2 months, quite a long time for people to change. I didn't know what to say when she knew I was different, does anyone know how to counter that? I think she has LSE and so whereas normally I would complement her a lot and ask her about her life and other boring shit I don't bleeding care about, it would expand her ego and raise her self esteem a little.
Through most of the conversation I was bursting out laughing, especially at her reactions, so I'm not taking this seriously. I'm quite glad that she noticed a change to be honest. That was also the best MSN conversation I've had with her as I felt in total control of the frame for the most part.
What do you guys think about what I've done, and about how I can fix this, if it's fixable?
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I think you did a great job. Don't try and recover, you are making good progress. Give up on the Messengers soon, so you can start doing this in real life bro. 
You will say fuck MYSPACE, YAHOO, MSN. These girls who are on the internet SIMPLY come on to get their EGO'S boosted by the millions of AFC'S out there. And if they do come to the internet looking for a real relationship, its because they have been PAST EXPIRATION being fucked by the guy you are about to become, self-confident bastards who know what they want and don't take shit .