are these signs of lack of interest even though we had a great date, kiss close etc?

How do we spark their interest

So I've been texting a stunner, went on a date on Wednesday and we got on great. The problem is.. she doesn't text much (or as you guys would say.. doesn't text ME much). She said she loved the date and I looked great yada yada, then said she'd call and I didn't hear from her for over a day, are these signs of lack of interest even though we had a great date, kiss close etc?

Any advice/replies can be more general as I'm hoping I can apply it to other girls too, not just this one.

How do we spark their interest when the default is.. an occasional texter at best?

Thanks guys.

But how do we arrange another date without starting to like badger her, she hardly ever replies. Even before the date.

So I've been texting a stunner, went on a date on Wednesday and we got on great. The problem is.. she doesn't text much (or as you guys would say.. doesn't text ME much). She said she loved the date and I looked great yada yada, then said she'd call and I didn't hear from her for over a day, are these signs of lack of interest even though we had a great date, kiss close etc?

I always wonder what guys mean when they say they had a "great date". Is it because of a kiss? Kisses don't mean much in the big picture of things (but it is the gateway to sex). Girls do it with each other just for fun. Is it because she said that she loved it? If she didn't enjoy herself, she probably wouldn't come right out and say it.

I'm not trying to say that she didn't enjoy the date. I'm saying that you are putting too much stock into her feedback when she's not acting in a way that is congruent to a woman that has enjoyed the company that they were with. Women, no matter how attractive or unattractive they are, will always put in the effort for a guy that they perceive as worth their time. What did you do on the date that proved that you were worth her time?

Don't get caught up on this one girl. She's not special and there are plenty like her. Get better at making her not wanting to let the night end. Do less stuff to be entertained by the environment and more time enjoying being in your company.

Why would you need to text her before the date?

And when you say "she hardly ever replies," that means you are texting her too much.

Stop texting like a teenage girl. And not hearing back for one day is NOTHING. Let his be a good time to practice patience with women. 8,9, and 10 women have abundance mentality, most men do not. So play it cool.


Wait a few days for her to contact you. When she does, ask her out right away for drinks. If you do not hear from her in a week, text her and ask her out.

When you're talking about not getting entertaining her with the environment but me, what exactly do you mean? As in.. don't do flashy exciting places, just normal places and put the effort in? I guess I'm finding it difficult to give girls the 'best date ever' because I don't know what that entails.

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When I say before the date I just mean the texting we had before I asked her out was pretty limited, maybe it should be though right?

The whole wait a while and ask her out again thing.. will she not be like.. 'jeez this guy doesn't give up'?

Yep...that's exactly what I'm talking about. I'm not saying that you can't take her someplace that's nice or fun. I'm saying that she needs to feel it's a great date because of you.

Here's the million dollar question. Why did the date end?