PUA Forum :: Escalate when convo gets sexual

Wanting tips on how to respond when the topic of conversation turns to sex. While I don't think I feel particulary uncomfortable speaking about it, I do tend to change the subject.

Obviously, this doesn't seem to me as being the best option. What would be your actions in this situation? What would you say to continue escalating without making it seem creepy?

What do you mean it turns sexual? In person or by text/phone? Is she initiating the sexual talk or you?

Just imagine if you started talking about sex and the woman changes the subject. That would be a signal that she probably not interested in sex with you at the moment. So if she's starting the sexual talk, you changing the subject can be taken as you not being too interested.

I changed the subject.

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This was in person and she started speaking about sex. I didn't change the subject right away, and did stay on the topic for a short period, but as I didn't know what else to add, I changed the subject.

Looking back, I can see what you mean with her thinking I'm not interested or, she knows I'm interested but it shows a massive lack of confidence I'd imagine.

Stoliar's advice seems solid and something I will try next time. I can imagine if she's responsive to it, that it would turn her on by being more personal in what I say as well as kino escalating.

Author:	DynEira [ Thu Feb 09, 2017 12:39 am ]
Post subject:	Escalate when convo gets sexual
Wanting tips on how to respond when the topic of conversation turns to sex. While I don't think I feel particulary uncomfortable speaking about it, I do tend to change the subject. Obviously, this doesn't seem to me as being the best option. What would be your actions in this situation? What would you say to continue escalating without making it seem creepy?

Author:	JackZero [ Thu Feb 09, 2017 1:51 am ]
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What do you mean it turns sexual? In person or by text/phone? Is she initiating the sexual talk or you? Just imagine if you started talking about sex and the woman changes the subject. That would be a signal that she probably not interested in sex with you at the moment. So if she's starting the sexual talk, you changing the subject can be taken as you not being too interested.

Author:	Stoliar [ Thu Feb 09, 2017 4:28 am ]
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Quote: Wanting tips on how to respond when the topic of conversation turns to sex. While I don't think I feel particulary uncomfortable speaking about it, I do tend to change the subject. Obviously, this doesn't seem to me as being the best option. What would be your actions in this situation? What would you say to continue escalating without making it seem creepy? Get more and more personal. Sexual convo might start by "Have you read that article explaining how the penis has been shaped by evolution to pump out the semen of a previous intercourse out of the vagina?", pretty general and innocent, and then you switch to "What was the shortest lapse of time you had between sex with different partners?", then to "Have you ever fulfilled any sexual fantasy? What's the wildest you have yet to explore?", then to "I'd totally imagine tying you up in bed and teasing you with the tip of my tongue" If she lets you lead the convo to that direction, make sure to support it by steady kino escalation. If everything goes right make-out session will be at hand's reach.

Author:	DynEira [ Thu Feb 09, 2017 8:04 am ]
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Quote: What do you mean it turns sexual? In person or by text/phone? Is she initiating the sexual talk or you? Just imagine if you started talking about sex and the woman changes the subject. That would be a signal that she probably not interested in sex with you at the moment. So if she's starting the sexual talk, you changing the subject can be taken as you not being too interested. This was in person and she started speaking about sex. I didn't change the subject right away, and did stay on the topic for a short period, but as I didn't know what else to add, I changed the subject. Looking back, I can see what you mean with her thinking I'm not interested or, she knows I'm interested but it shows a massive lack of confidence I'd imagine. Stoliar's advice seems solid and something I will try next time. I can imagine if she's responsive to it, that it would turn her on by being more personal in what I say as well as kino escalating.

Author:	Heywood Jablowme [ Thu Feb 09, 2017 4:15 pm ]
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Author:	Mr. Assertive [ Thu Feb 09, 2017 5:21 pm ]
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Quote: Quote: What do you mean it turns sexual? In person or by text/phone? Is she initiating the sexual talk or you? Just imagine if you started talking about sex and the woman changes the subject. That would be a signal that she probably not interested in sex with you at the moment. So if she's starting the sexual talk, you changing the subject can be taken as you not being too interested. This was in person and she started speaking about sex. I didn't change the subject right away, and did stay on the topic for a short period, but as I didn't know what else to add, I changed the subject. Looking back, I can see what you mean with her thinking I'm not interested or, she knows I'm interested but it shows a massive lack of confidence I'd imagine. Stoliar's advice seems solid and something I will try next time. I can imagine if she's responsive to it, that it would turn her on by being more personal in what I say as well as kino escalating. I have been telling guys that sure, they understand the advice but why do you think that advice works? You do understand that women get horny right? You do understand that most of them like it doggy or if she wants to get some control kink out of the way she will want to ride you and tell you to choke her a bit. Girls are humans and they need a little TLC too. Stop robbing them of being with a sexual confident man who isn't afraid to tell them it's okay, things will not get weird after the fucking is done.

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